The open sign is on just like Peanuts. Is there anything you'd like to talk about or vent? Take as long as you need.
2007-10-30 04:24:05 · 14 answers · asked by Thunderman9 6 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Actually yes I do. For some reason my friends ( who I thought were my really good friends) decided to hang out and talk to one of my ex's. I know your prolly thinking "Who cares, they can talk to whoever they want, blah blah blah". But this situation is different. This guy put me through a lot of crap, he treated me like I was nothing, he would leave and go party all night without me, I had no friends because of him, and I was the most depressed 19 year old ever. After I turned 21, I don't know what happened but I got smarter and finally realized I deserved better than this guy, so I left him. It's been very hard. I thought he was my soul mate, I thought I was going to marry this man and grow old with him. It took a lot to leave him and move on with my life. But I did and these friends were there and saw what I went through when I was with him and then how much I changed for the good after I left him. Then just recently I found out through the grape vine that they are hanging out with him. WTF?!!? I feel so hurt and betrayed. I feel like I did something to these friends of mine (that I thought were really close friends, the type that you can talk to and tell them anything and they won't judge you). I've always been there for them, I don't know what I did wrong for them to just not care and then hide it from me. Am I not as good a friend as I thought I was? Did I hurt them and not know it? Is them doing this to me showing me how good a friend I am to them? I don't understand any of it and it's breaking my heart!! But I seem to be the only one that is hurting from all of this. I found out some stuff on saturday about this, I broke down and cried. Then I found out more last night and cried again!!! What did I do to deserve this. Then one of my boyfriend's friends (which he really isn't a friend) was telling my bf stuff that happened between me and this certain ex in the above story. This ex, my friends, and my bf's friend, all happened to be at the same bar (coincidental, I think not!!!) and they all started talking about me!!! Why did I come up? Why are they talking about me? Are they all that big of losers that they have nothing else to talk about except someone that's not there? Well, anyway my ex was telling my bf's friend stuff about me and then I got interrogated last night about it. That makes me really mad. Those people shouldn't be talking about me and I should not be getting interrogated about things my ex said. What happened between me and my ex is our business and personally I DON'T want to talk about our relationship. But for some reason he does and wants to talk to people he really doesn't know and tell all of our business to them!!!! For what reason? What's the purpose? Is it to hurt me? Is it to break me and my bf up? I really don't get it!!!! And now I feel like I have no friends at all!!! No one I can trust! Well, I think that's about it. Thanks, I needed that!!!
2007-10-30 04:50:39 · answer #1 · answered by ambrosiasninja 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are a good person for being so open to let people vent. God Bless You!
I have LOADS of friends and family to whom I am close to! They know my stuff. God Bless Them!
I Volunteer for an agency in my "spare" time, and help others help themselves. The Clients are really struggling.
God Help Them!
My biggest vice on here are MEAN PEOPLE! Says it on my profile. That is really my biggest gripe @ the moment.
Have a great day! Thanks for being a sounding board and an ear to listen, with eyes to read. Take care of YOU!
2007-10-30 04:35:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been wracking my brain for the longest time! See, I'm bisexual, but I think that I should have to choose one or the other (straight or gay). I just can't seem to though and it's driving me crazy! Can't I just be me?! Aaargh!
Thanks for letting me "unload". It felt pretty good, actually.
2007-10-30 04:30:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Can you please tell me how to split myself in two? I promise the rational, dutiful mundane guy will never get to hear of all the immense joy, fun and fulfilment the guy who took the ridiculously large leap of faith got to have...
2007-10-30 04:33:01 · answer #4 · answered by Vassal of Ages 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm coming after every prick that thinks it's funny to squirt a line of ketchup along the stair railing! >:(
...Tis all :)
2007-10-30 04:29:17 · answer #5 · answered by Prima_Donnassassin! 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm tired of people cutting me off in mid sentence..it makes me feel like I'm invisible...it so lowers my sense of self..
sigh..
2007-10-30 04:29:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Here have my stress for a while, not sure if I want it back though
2007-10-30 04:27:43 · answer #7 · answered by - - 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There are some real angry people on here today.
2007-10-30 04:28:57 · answer #8 · answered by metallica_rocks0122 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i'm tired of being lonely
2007-10-30 04:31:28 · answer #9 · answered by justmenothinelse 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's very nice! However, my problems are really minor compared to so many others. Thanks though!:)
2007-10-30 04:30:40 · answer #10 · answered by michelle 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋