In what way?
2007-10-30 04:14:03 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I ended an 8 year relationship, but we've remained best friends. I've learned that the only person I CAN change is myself.
I've gotten 5 more piercings, and stretched all of those.
I've gotten 6 more tats, and they all mean something to me, or were designed by me.
I've lost several people who I was close to, and no matter how "prepared" I was, death hurts every time.
I've been diagnosed with several medical problems, broken my back, had some surgeries, dealt with cancer.
I've gotten older and wiser and smarter and more determined to enjoy what I can; change myself for the better when I can; and try to let the little annoyances go. But, as always, it's a work in progress!
2007-10-30 06:49:44 · answer #1 · answered by FTW 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have changed a lot over the past 10 years. The person I was then is not the person I am today. At this time in 1997 I was dealing with the death of my best freind from high school which happenned that past summer and who I was up to that point was shatterred like a mirror.
2007-10-30 11:27:31 · answer #2 · answered by Jon 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ten years ago, I was young and inexperienced in so many ways I don't even know where I'd start. Except for lessons in life I've learned along the way (which were very few), I haven't changed all that much for the past decade. I'm still me, still gay, still craving for the kind of life that I think I deserve, still learning, and still moving forward. Take care! ;)
2007-10-30 11:31:19 · answer #3 · answered by J. McCoy 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Lets see, back when I was 30. I was in the same relationship I am in now but I had only been in it for 2 years. We had not moved in together. We had not purchased either of our 2 homes. I was working full time and finishing my degree on a part time basis. My financial situation was very shaky. And I spent most of my spare time in gay bars.
Fast forward 10 years. I'm still in the same long term relationship. We have lived together for 8 years and we currently live in the second home we have purchased together. I'm still working full time and I completed my degree in 1999. After much hardship I have taken control of my finances. Now I spend most of my spare time working on the 77 year old house we purchased and reading novels.
2007-10-30 11:44:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1)My 10 yr relationship was coming to a bad end. She didn't know I'm bi (not that that was pertinent to the breakup.) I was about 3 weeks away from moving in from a girl I'd loved for 15 yrs platonically, 3 months away from us realising that we were better friends than lovers, and 11 months from my twin daughters being born.
2) My parents were still alive, I still had about 3 years before they went within six weeks of each other, and (of course) I didn't make the most of it.
3) As far as 99% of my friends knew I was hetero, despite having bi experiences for about 25 yrs. When my parents died I decided it was time to be honest about it.
4) I was about 3 years away from meeting the woman I'm now married to, admitting I was bi, and getting nothing but love and trust from her. We were about 6 years from our first mmf 3som.
2007-10-30 13:31:53 · answer #5 · answered by paof2 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aside from the weight gain, I changed in a major way. I had come to the realization of who I was-- a black woman who was involved in ministry, who happened to be a lesbian. I always knew I was different, but I didn't (or wouldn't) understand why. I wondered why I was attracted to women. The thing about it, I just was. I have always been, but I never really dwelled on it until this point. It was really scary, yet a time for me to discover who I was.
2007-10-30 11:54:51 · answer #6 · answered by Pnthr wmn 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, in 1997, I was still in middle school. Now I've graduated college and live 1000 miles away. Oh, and I've come out of the closet since then.
Sooo yeah, I think my like is a 180 from what it was ten years ago.
2007-10-30 11:25:02 · answer #7 · answered by gopher646 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
10 years ago i am single,innocent. Glad to say that now i have 3 smart kids that gives me reason to be strong.
10 years ago i think i am a strong-willed person. Now I feel emotionally weak but strong enough not to give up on life.
10 years ago I have my pride in the highest ten,now i am regaining pride to 2,trying to reach the top again.
10 years ago I am academically smart.Now i feel dumb but know a lot more to life.
So have I changed for the last ten years? yes.A lot...and it was like I'm in pre-school again.Only,now i am trying to learn about life itself.
2007-10-30 11:41:24 · answer #8 · answered by louiedy 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The last 10 years have been a rollercoaster of good and bad...in this order...
graduated, came out, fell in love, cheated, been cheated on, screwed over, lying to the ones i love, drug habit, drinking problem, moved out, lost my job, dropped out of school,moved back home, got two good paying jobs, been clean from drugs, moved out again...things are great..in love!!!
;)
2007-10-30 18:28:38 · answer #9 · answered by ♫christy♫ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ten years ago, i didnt get drunk twice every weekend. smoke whenever i had any fà gs, have many friends, go out ever in the evenings, i counted myself as straight
not to mention i was 6 years old back then
2007-10-30 11:18:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋