I want to break up with my boyfriend. We have been together for 5 years. And I'm not happy anymore. The problem is the jeep that he drives is in my name and I still owe for it. And He doesn't have any credit to get it in his name. So, if we break up. He wouldn't have a way back and forth to work. I don't want him to lose his job because of me. Am I being stupid? should I even care about what happens to him after we break up?
2007-10-30 03:55:01 · 12 answers · asked by patches 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Umm tell me, did u buy the jeep for him? Or is he helpin u to pay for it? If no then enjoy the comfort of ur jeep. He will find out means in gettin to & from work.
If it really bothers u then give him the jeep and let him pay off the balance.
2007-10-30 04:05:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you're not happy and want to break up, you need to do it for you. Sell the jeep if you have to. If he has a job, he'll find a way to get back and forth to work. I never put things in anyone else's name but my own for that reason.
2007-10-30 11:00:09 · answer #2 · answered by dinny's engaged!! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are in tough situation and I can related to you exactly...this is a hard lesson learned that you never cosign anything, not even with a husband...sounds like you have a good heart but the bottom line is once you guys break up he is not your responsibilty anymore...does he have any family members that can help him? The sad thing is if you can't sell that Jeep you are the one responsible for it...Not sure your situation with your soon to be ex but you have to move on and think what's best for you...
2007-10-30 11:01:01 · answer #3 · answered by poker_fan_in_nyc 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do the break up and take the jeep. It's his problem to find his own transportation. Sounds cold, but if he keeps the jeep, you will be stuck paying for it and if God forbid he has an accident in it, you could be liable for the suit that follows.
2007-10-30 11:03:12 · answer #4 · answered by Steve F 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is good that you care about him, even though you want to break up with him. It is nice that you want him to be able to land on his feet. But he needs to take care of himself now. He needs to take responsibility for his own life. Offer to sell him the Jeep, give him reasonable payment plans. If he can't manage it then he is out of luck.
2007-10-30 11:00:32 · answer #5 · answered by texas_glen_1999 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well of course you should care but at same turn you are not responsible for him. He is an adult. Have you told hi you are unhappy and want to split up? Maybe something can be worked out. Although those kinds of things usually wind up a disaster. I'd say, tell him he can have the car if he can get it financed. Otherwise you will have to take it. If not you will get screwed. promise!!
2007-10-30 11:11:54 · answer #6 · answered by tammy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmnm I don't think it is OK to stay with someone because they are driving a vehicle that is in your name. A lesson to learn NEVER put a vehicle in your name for anyone again.
You are going to have to tell him it is over and you want that vehicle back unless he can come up with the pay off. He is not your responsibility he is grown let him take care of himself. You do not say how old you are I am assuming you are over 18 and so is he.
Stand your ground don't let him intimidate you into letting him keep that vehicle or guilt you into it. It will not be your fault if he loses his job that will be his fault. If anything happens to that vehicle it is your responsibility to pay for it like in a wreck or anything guard yourself. That is your responsibility.
2007-10-30 11:05:38 · answer #7 · answered by mdjgirl7 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not sell the car to him.
Or come to a bind agreement contract that say that he will have the car and agrees to pay the monthly payments. If he falls behind or stop making payments, you could always take him to court using the agreement contract and more than likely you will win.
2007-10-30 11:02:37 · answer #8 · answered by SecretsGyrl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it is in your name and you pay for it what is the problem?
Enjoy your Jeep.
2007-10-30 10:59:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the jeep is keeping you two together? come on, now you can do better than that!
2007-10-30 10:58:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋