How do you know when someone is truely sorry? If someone doesn't take responsibility for what they have done and constantly deflects the blame and maybe even blames the innocent party for the reason they acted badly to begin with and makes excuses and justifications for what they have done......can they even be a little sorry or is it all BS to get the issue over with...what do you do when you realize someone who has hurt you deeply doesn't even feel bad for it and all the attempts at "apologizing" are clearly half hearted. And how do you react when they get mad that you don't accept their apology and forget about it?
2007-10-30 02:26:54 · 5 answers · asked by suitablepenname 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Then they are humoring you to shut you up. If this is the case, they will never stop the behavior. And obviously you know they are not sorry, so.... Fool me once shame on you....Fool me twice shame on me.....
You are allowing it
2007-10-30 02:36:58 · answer #1 · answered by tammy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's called remorse and those who are sincere usually feel it when they've done something wrong. People who don't take responsibility for their actions can drive anyone crazy.
I used to be married to a woman whose life revolved around chaos. Whatever she touched went absolutely crazy. She always blamed everyone else. Finally, I sat down and thought it through. Seemed to me that if I likened it to a wheel with spokes, she was always the hub. She never changed. I got tired of putting up with it and left.
Prepare for a lifetime of blame for the other person's actions.
2007-10-30 02:37:57 · answer #2 · answered by QWERTY 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
that is a sign that the person who hurt you really doesn't care what you think but is counting on you to let them do as they wish. If someone hurts you badly and doesn't even feel bad for it, they don't love you but want you as someone they can control and it is time to move on and find someone else who doesn't hurt you in the first place. If this is a husband, divorce him and if just a boyfriend, be glad that you never married and look for someone better!!
2007-10-30 02:38:15 · answer #3 · answered by Al B 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
And one day, the sentence was invented. It usually contains seventeen words or less. It begins with a capital letter and ends with a period or other punctuation. It is a complete thought. It doesn't ramble, or run on. It expresses. It is good.
When others read the sentence, they understand. Communication occurs.
2007-10-30 02:32:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
this relationship sounds very familiar/GET OUT NOW/before it is to late.ask for help from family and friends
2007-10-30 02:31:52 · answer #5 · answered by Emma 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋