Sex question.......when me an my fiance get down....he cums in a short time b/c he says its so good...an hot?
he can't control himself. Then 5 mins later i'm ready for somemore an he's tired. Whats up with this..he's 24.
also when we are getting down...he'll say he wants anal...but don't say anything....i would if he persisted a little more
2007-10-30 01:33:20 · 16 answers · asked by Tica 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
he cums so fast. you should make him do the masturbation. Man usually get tired after they come they need more time then women to recover. But women needs only few minutes to recover and they are all good to go. I have had the same problem with my husband. now when he get tired I go on top. It means I do all the work if i want some more. He has no complains. So if you want more you can do all the work. Your man will not complain because man like sex all the time although he will not be able to come again may be he will. Man can *** only 2-3 times a day. Women can *** so many times a day.
For anal, you can ask him yourself and he will be really surprised and happy if you step up and do it.
2007-10-30 01:47:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
You have several questions posted about the sexual incompatibility between you and your fiance. I would highly suggest that you have a very serious conversation or two with him about your concerns. From what you say, he is very quick to take care of his business and you are left wanting more. If he can not satisfy you then there is a stronger likelihood that you will eventually look elsewhere for it, not good if you are wanting to get married. He needs to have a change of mindset and focus on your pleasure rather than his own (it will always happen for the man). He needs to slow down and enjoy finding your satisfaction with each movement and technique. Remove his mind from the feelings in his own body and focus on the way you move and the sounds you make. If he learns to pay more attention to you he will forget about his own surging and it will last much longer and you will get to the mountain tops as well. I wish you good communication with him and great fulfillment. God bless.
2007-10-30 09:02:47 · answer #2 · answered by joe 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is not normal for a 24 year old man to not want to go on. You need to learn techniques to delay his ejaculation. You can try the squeeze technique. It is unusual that at his age he's not ready for more. When he gets older he will be able to last much longer. As for anal, I have never tried it nor do I want to, but if both of you want it, it's probably OK. He may come even faster there as it will be much tighter.
2007-10-30 09:00:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate it when I don't satisfy. I don't last as long as I'd like the first time, but give us 10 mins of just touching and hugging and I'll be ready for more. Toys should also be seen as aides rather than substitutes. But women should also understand that it is a biological reaction for a man to want to sleep after sex. That feeling is very short lived, try to help him get through it, kiss him, rub his legs, backside, back - but leave his penis alone for a while. Encourage him to use a vibrator on you (if you enjoy that!)- little turns me on as much as holding and kissing my partner as she climaxs. We are all different - but the one thing to avoid is pressure.
We are not all selfish, but maybe we are not all brilliant and feeling a failure is not a turn on.
Good luck
2007-10-30 08:53:08 · answer #4 · answered by Paul H 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
At that age I could get off and never miss a stroke, keeping it up was , well is not an issue. My suggestion is tease him more let him in then stop give him a little oral, hand job etc. get him cranked up. I don't understand him not wanting to go after it the second time. The best part is getting a woman off .
2007-10-30 09:08:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He should make you climax a time or 2 before he does. Then you both can have a fufilling sex life. About the anal...don't do it just because HE wants to. It has to be something you are open to trying.
2007-10-30 08:41:43 · answer #6 · answered by Elt 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If he can not keep up at age 24? What about age 35 and after?
You need to either buy few toys or divorce him while you are young and find yourself a man who enjoys sex as much as you do.
Good Luck.
2007-11-03 08:08:57 · answer #7 · answered by feysunny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take control, yuo're leting him control the whole thing, go very-very slow, stop, go get a drrink of water, anything to slow his passion down, and don't let him finish until you're sasifed!!
2007-10-30 11:39:33 · answer #8 · answered by happywjc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG I wish I was him. I can do better than that and I'm 54.
Maybe you should invite me over and I can demonstrate for him (how to take care of you and how to get in your butt).
please.
2007-10-30 12:19:34 · answer #9 · answered by old-softy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's being a typical man and only caring whether he is satisfied. He can learn to control himself. I pity you if that's what your married life is going to be like.
2007-10-30 08:41:23 · answer #10 · answered by golden oldy 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋