How can i tell my parents i am pregnant?

Question

I am 18 and on the pill. I done a pregnancy test and it showed possitive, i have all the symptoms of pregnancy and i done 2 extra test that also showed possitive, How do i tell my parents when they told me don't get pregnant, it was not planned but i really want this baby, i am scared of what will happen, how can i tell them? pls help

Answer 1

I guess you've learned now that despite what they tell you in school, sex is never 100% safe and birth control doesn't always work. That's why abstinence is the best policy.

Just be honest with them. Maybe you could tell them one at a time. Say you were engaged in some irresponsible behavior, and thought the pill would make up for it, but that didn't happen.

If you are in school (or planning to go to college) you might consider adoption. If you keep the baby who will care for it and raise it? Babies need full time mommies. Children that grow up with single moms are more likely to be poor, experience abuse and have behavioral and social problems.

All the best to you and thanks for choosing life for your child.

Answer 2

First off stop taking the pill if you havent done so already. Now to address how to tell your parents. I think first you should tell the father of the baby and dicuss with him how you want to keep it and see where he stands. Once that is done you can approuch your parents. If the babies father wants to do his role then both of you might want to sit down with your parents and let them know that you are pregnant. Your 18 and are having a baby dont stress its not good for you or the baby. . . . . . Im sure there are numbers you can call about this. I know when I was 18 if I got pregnant I wouldnt have known what to do. But I look at it like this, Im very spirtual though, you are bringing a new life into the world and that no matter what is a joyfull occasion.

Answer 3

Where is the father, is he part of your life, you are 18 now, you are an adult with a child, you are going to be the parent, and you are worried how to tell your parents, it is time to grow up because this will grow you up real fast.
As far as your parents, tell them we need to sit down and have a talk, without yelling screaming, no negatives, what is done is done, they can't make it go away, nothing they can do, tell them you really want them to be a part of thier new grandchilds life, and I pray they will be thier for you for emotional support, tell them how much more that it would mean to you if you had that support.
You need to go to a doctor, and get on your prenatal vitamins etc, time to start thinking about this life you are bringing into this world, instead of worrying how others will react.
From here on out it is about how much you can do, what you should do, and not what you did, that part is over.
By the way, Congratulations, and I pray you or you and the babys father will raise this new life with Gods many Blessings.

Answer 4

Children are truly a blessing from god, and if you want to keep your son. Then be a grown up and make a grown up decision and do whats best for you, do what you want. Your parents will just have to get over it. And realize they are going to be grandparents. Not all of us can have a picture perfect life your parents will just have to deal with that. And it doesnt mean your life ends, it just mean that a new life is born that you will now be responsible for. Think of the many factors involved with a baby, yes we know they are cute but financially, emotionally and mentally they take alot from you and you need to be strong for you and your son. And pray that your parents come around and if they dont then trust that you will be able to handle whatever comes your way. Because when you have a baby its no longer about I its about US (you and your son) the decision YOU make will affect the both of you. And where is the man that helped make you the baby? If he is a loser than thats his loss if he decides not to be there thats between him,his son and god you cant change that...Good Luck

Currently 37wks with !st baby boy.

Answer 5

First stop taking the pill! Call your doctor to confirm it with a blood test! Let them know you were taking the pill.

I would honestly tell your mother first, unless you have a bad relationship with her. I know at 18 my parents would have been upset! I really think any parent would. But the important thing is... you were on birthcontrol. And yes everyone knows it's not fool proof. Just tell here Exactly how you feel... you are going to take on the responsiblity of being a mother, because you are the one who choose to DO IT! I don't mean this in a bad way. It just shows that you will take responsiblity for your actions.

Hope this helps!

Answer 6

I don't know the relationship you have with your parents. All familys react differently about different situations. But that being said I do strongly believe that open honesty is the best policy. Right now you will be needing the support from the ones that love you. You need to tell your parents. I am assuming that you still live at home with your folks? Is the father of the baby involved in your life right now? If so is he aware of your situation? I think all parties involved should know what is going on. I wish you the best!!

Answer 7

Just bite the bullet and tell them flat out. Something along the lines of "I have some news. This wasn't planned, and in fact was tried to be prevented, but I'm going to have your grandchild." Most parents have less harsh reactions to news of their grandchild coming than to the same news of their child being pregnant. Allow them time to be upset and to adjust. If a fight and threats start, just tell them firmly that you want them to have time to think about everything first before anything is decided and walk away.
If you're still on the pill, you need to stop now so as not to hurt the baby.
Good luck!

Answer 8

Even if you are not able to have the nerve to tell your parents about the pregnancy it will ultimately show. It will be easier for you to admit when your parents confront you. This is not a problem. Though you are an adult are you financially ready to raise the baby? What about the father of the baby? Is he ready to take responsibility? If he is ready there is nothing to fear. Your parents will know it anyway.

Answer 9

Just tell them the truth. Say you were on the pill, but it doesn't always work. Tell them that you tried to be responsible and prevent pregnancy and now all you can do is be responsible by taking care of what you have created. Parents love their children, even if they are not happy about it they love you and will help you.
I wish you the best, and congratulations!

Answer 10

Hi Mom, Hi Dad

As I'm sure you both know, the birth control pill is only 98% reliable. Well, I'm in the 2% bracket. Really bad luck huh?

Seriously though, you are 18 and responsible for your actions and their results. If you want to keep the baby, then by all means do. Simply sit your parents down one night and tell them. "Mom, Dad, this wasn't planned and I was taking precautions. But I'm pregnant and I'm going to keep the baby. I hope that you will be supportive of my decision and happy for me."

Answer 11

Well honestly this depends on how you think they would react. Me personally I would of course freak out. My suggestion (if you have a good relationship with them) would be to take ONE not both out to eat. Mom or dad whoever you think would be more receptive. Set the mood and then just talk to them about it. My suggestion is appeal for their guidance and help. Parents can't help but reach out to a child in need. Doesn't matter how old you are. Have a plan worked out because I'm sure they will ask you what you want to do about it. Get ready to get yelled at. Probably will happen, don't be defensive, just listen. Good luck!