I would not, because I feel I am the person today because of all the things that happened yesterday......Good or Bad, they helped in making ME.
2007-10-30 00:43:49 · 20 answers · asked by Melissa R 4 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Senior Citizens
I'm blessed to have survived this long. I have 5 wonderful children. The only thing I would change are the things that I might have let them down over. But I did the best I knew how--when I knew better-I did better.
2007-10-30 09:43:06 · answer #1 · answered by Southern Comfort 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yep - I made a wrong decision when I left school at 18, and if I had my time over again I would have taken the job I was offered instead of going to College. But who knows what would have happened if I had taken the job? Things could have worked out much worse than they did anyway ! I guess we can't ever really know the answer to the what ifs about life. If I had taken that job I would not have met hubby. I could go on.
2007-10-30 10:09:30 · answer #2 · answered by sasha 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes I would I knew I should have been born a female. At age 8 or 9 looking at the sears catolg not at the toys like I told my perents but it was the girls and womens underwear, lingerie, corsets,bras,girdles,stockings,panties ect.......Looking back now that was a clear indication to me that I wanted to be a girl so I could wear all the pretty and frilly sissy girl clothes.
The first time I had sex was dressed as a girl with my friend Gary who wanted me to go down on him. I was 14. ( I realy wanted to do it to ) I told him that I was not a homo and that the only way I would do that was if I was a girl or dressed as one. No sooner had the words left my mouth when Gary handed me a large box full of his older sissters clothes she had left when she move away. Well I could not put them on fast enough panties, bra, school girl pletted dress, white blouse mary jane shoes and wig. Gary put some red lip stick on my lips. For the next 3 years I was his girl friend.
But I fought my feeling (9.5 years
in the Marine corps and two failed marrages.
If I had gone to my parents and told then that I felt more cofertable as a girl and doing girl things. I even had G I joes But I wanted Barbies and would play with sisters dolls when they wern't around.
Every girl I would bed down thinking that this one would ghange me and It nrver happen.
The way I look at it I would not have haD CHILDERN AND NO DEVOCES. I am 55 now and have been dressing since I was 14 for the last 20 years 70% of the time.
I am tied of living a lie and I am looking for a new job wher I can dress fulltime and suport my self and then I will be the person on the ouside that is on the inside.
Thank you. Nancy Blow Is on her way and a better person for it,
2007-10-30 02:33:49 · answer #3 · answered by maidinheels 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
That is true, but i still would like to change a thing or two. I wish I would have finished school and not have gotten married so soon ot to the guy I married, However the children I got lucky to have I wouldn't change for anything those I guess things would have to be the same. Oh well!!
2007-10-30 05:52:17 · answer #4 · answered by doxie 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't want to change it - albeit having made some not so great decisions along the way....I'd be afraid that changing just one thing would have a domino effect and I'd lose out on things/people/experiences that have blessed my life so far.
PLUS my experiences, bad and good have formed who am I today.
2007-10-30 02:11:27 · answer #5 · answered by sage seeker 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I think exactly as you. Whatever my trials were up to this point have made me what I am. And I have survived some pretty terrible stuff...I can really be proud of myself for that. The fact that I have not only survived, but have evolved into a caring and honest person says a lot about my own strength of character.
2007-10-30 03:07:04 · answer #6 · answered by Susie Q 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Wow, what a question. There's definitely the rape that i would not want to go through again. But then again had it not happened i would have turned out promiscuous and evil towards people. Things happen for a reason, maybe that's why we can't change them.
2007-10-30 16:05:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
There are certainly a few choices I would have made differently, but overall I figure God gave me this life for a reason, and I'm fairly happy with it. Actually, when I do things His way it works out much better. When I do them my way, well, that's where those bad choices came in. LOL!
2007-10-30 01:41:24 · answer #8 · answered by Lady G 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
there are things I wish to change, but after hearing this inspirational talk, i feel that things happen for a reason. And this I always carry on my mind.
especially this one instance. i was frustrated that this one volume was missing in the store for me to complete my karaoke collection, and they said they have no more stock of that volume. I didn't return and I realized it happened for a reason. Had it still been there, I could have been one of the casualties in the glorietta blast...
I really wouldn't. Instead, use them in improving yourself
2007-10-30 00:48:42 · answer #9 · answered by Guilbauted Sookie 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I so agree with you. I have learned much on this road called "life" I have traveled many highways, country roads, interstates, and tolls, it has taken me many places on this path. I have become strong from all the adversity, loving because I care, and my struggles help me be compassionate to others, understanding because I have been there. I developed humor to keep me sane and off a doctors couch
2007-10-30 00:51:50 · answer #10 · answered by slk29406 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋