How you deal with selfish people??

Stay away cause they make me mad and I want to slap them silly! Sometimes they upset me so much and I do things just to piss them off, AND I LIKE IT! That is bad, so I just stay away!

2007-10-29 21:48:36 · answer #1 · answered by char__c is a good cooker 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋

Go by their own way, find out the reasons of their selfishness, give tips of do's and dont's and bring them to your fold. Make them understand why they need to be not selfish. Experience will teach better lessons than theory.

2007-10-30 04:49:29 · answer #2 · answered by JANARVIHARAN 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋

Be selfish with selfish people and be nice to nice people Or

Be nice to everyone and you'll see sonn that the selfish people will learn their lesson Or

Be nice to everyone wheter or not the selfish ones become humble and soon God will reward you some way or the other

2007-10-30 04:49:17 · answer #3 · answered by Y!@n$werer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋

I've been told a couple of times that I'm selfish, so I really wouldn't know. Oh actually yes I would, you just tell them their selfish.

2007-10-30 06:25:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋

Don't deal with them or be selfish to them too.

2007-10-30 04:55:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋

Just you help him 3 to 4 times and allow him to continue his selfishness. After this suddenly you stop it totally. Than i think he will realise it.

2007-11-03 01:45:25 · answer #6 · answered by ikram a 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋

agree with the first couple of answers- if you can, do not even try to deal with them.
If you have to, then tell them straight up how you feel when they act that way and give them a chance to change. If they continue then just treat them as they do you, giving them a taste of their own medicine.

2007-10-30 04:55:19 · answer #7 · answered by PenalTomcat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋

Mother Teresa
Current mood: contemplative

"People are often unreasonable, illogical, and self-centered;
Forgive them anyway.

If you are kind, people may accuse you of selfish, ulterior motives;
Be kind anyway.

If you are successful, you will win some false friends and some true enemies;
Succeed anyway.

If you are honest and frank, people may cheat you;
Be honest and frank anyway.

What you spend years building, someone could destroy overnight;
Build anyway.

If you find serenity and happiness, they may be jealous;
Be happy anyway.

The good you do today, people will often forget tomorrow;
Do good anyway.

Give the world the best you have, and it may never be enough;
Give the world the best you've got anyway.

You see, in the final analysis, it is between you and God;
It never was between you and them anyway."
Author:Mother Teresa
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2007-10-30 04:56:42 · answer #8 · answered by Cammie 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋

same as how you deal with others,selfish people are sick all they want is attention so if you give them chance to take advances to what are you doing to them they will use to have it whether you like it or not

2007-10-30 04:54:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋

Just tell them the truth,that selfishness is the bad behaviour,God don't teach us like that.You have to be kind to them so that they can feel gilty

2007-10-30 05:26:54 · answer #10 · answered by Baby c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋

let them be selfish in their own space without you participating and feeding into the selfishness

2007-10-30 04:49:26 · answer #11 · answered by hawleysangel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋

How you deal with selfish people??

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