i am usually afraid to fight is their anything that can help me?

Question

i am usually afraid to fight is their anything that can help me?

Answer 1

There is no reason to fight!!!! If you are faced with a situation where you have to defend yourself... A serious situation where fighting is necessary, it will come naturally. "fight" is a natural instinct.
PS...pistons - No one respects 'thugs'. What kind of 'respectable' occupation is that, anyway?? Are you kidding??

Answer 2

Well as far as I know yes there is.

Taking from the history from which this topic starts. Man is basically a gatherer( food and utilities) and a hunter, a field whose basic is fighting, but for need not for pleasure.

Since you asked this question either you are a high libido raging type who just wants to see it as a sport ( no offense meant Greeks loved that) or you as soon as you see the person you start to compare with him, a sign of a defensive individual, a good and careful one.

The basics of fighting are even divided into two the offensive style and the defensive style, depending on which fuels you and though they might get lethal they are meant for self satisfaction - to make you feel safe. It becomes misuse if not controlled.

Depending on your self you have to chose :
If you are the offensive type then nothing but learning this art will help you but don't forget self restraint.

If you are the defensive type then there are more options than one. First is the simplest and the most basic learn the defensive style. The second requires practice that is believing in your self and facing the aggressor and making him take your point into consideration. It hard in the beginning but it really helps and calms you down too, boon in certain matters and situations too.

The history says that since the Man became a social animal he seeks cooperation and company. Offensive does not gives that but the opposite.

There are more options in defensive methods but you first need to narrow it down to defensive or offensive as the rest will only matter later.

Depending on your nature think deeply and choose wisely.

take care and luck.

Answer 3

There is nothing wrong with being afraid to fight; fighting is totally wrong. I spent over a third of my life in military training and active duty service and I can truly say there is not a more deluded class of people. The code of the west, where the sheriff goes out to meet the gunslinger in a man to man shootout in the main street of Laredo is drilled into us youngsters as true manhood from the time we are old enough to talk. It is totally illogical training. The people who survive are the people who use their brains to avoid a fight, compromise and cooperate. I am 75 years old and I can truly say I have never been in a real fight other than the playful wrestling matches my brothers and I had as children. I have always been able to control my anger and talk my way out of them. I became that way because my parents taught me only cowards fight. I was also raised a Christian and was taught there to love ones enemies and forgive.

Do not be ashamed of not wanting to fight; conscientious objectors are the true brave people.

Good luck in your relationships, good mental health, peace and Love!

Answer 4

I know what you mean. You feel angry but can not express it.

The best way is overcome this is to attempt it. If you are in school join the debate team. Learn martial arts or join a boxing club. Next time a guy talks **** or toubles you, stand aup and confront him. You might lose the first fight, but you confidence will only go up.

People might tell you otherwise, but if you don't push others to the limits, you'll be pushed around by them. Compromise should be your last option against a stronger opponent.

Answer 5

I do not think fighting is the answer to anything, it does not prove anything, so I would not worry about being afraid to do so.......there is no need to fight.
Try working things out through talking. That is the best way to do things anyway...so dont worry about it.

Good luck to you....

Answer 6

Why DO you want to "fight". To fight is to use physical force. To argue is verbal. Why would you want to use "physical force"?? ARE YOU BEING CHALLENGED to fight?? I'm very confused. Maybe you might want to see a therapist maybe to get your problem worked out. I try to teach love, kindness, and at last learning to be "diplomatic", rather than a "fight". Sorry, but you didn't give us much to work with and it's hard to answer your question in a "diplomatic manner". Can you give us more of an idea as to what you are referring to? Thanks bunches.

Answer 7

why do you need to fight in the first place... It's because you have everything to lose... When you have nothing anymore, you'd be as brave as those people in the movies... You will not care because whatever happens, you're still going to be you.. You must nut be afraid!

Answer 8

No nothing or no one can help you face your fears except for yourself. If you have never been in a fight before im sure that you are afraid, but let me assure you that once you actually start swinging fists, you will love it and you will no longer be afraid.

Answer 9

Why would you want to fight??
Fighting may prove who is more powerful or who has more strength but it says nothing about the person. Work on your self esteem if you want to prove yourself.

Answer 10

yea there is just rember it takes a better man to walk away than it does to stand and fight if they want to fight let them fight themselves you be the bigger man and walk away dont stoop to their level of thinking