Three months ago, I used to be like rebel with her, and I would do anything that was bad, because I liked being "bad". But then my friend invited me to church and God changed my life, I keep going to church and doing God's will. My mom says I'm too fanatic... Do you think I should stop going to church and being so dedicated to God cause of her, or I should keep doing God's will which is what I want to do?
2007-10-29 14:38:48 · 27 answers · asked by الإيمان 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
There are 2 things to say here:
1. Your mother is right about the all-or-nothing fanaticism. Temperance/moderation are 2 of the traits that many Christians struggle with the most. Make sure that your life is balanced!
2. Here is what Christ said about this in Matthew 10:34-37:
“Do not think that I came to bring peace on earth. I did not come to bring peace but a sword.
For I have come to set a man against his father, a daughter against her mother, and a daughter-in-law against her mother-in-law; and a man’s enemies will be those of his own household.’
He who loves father or mother more than Me is not worthy of Me. And he who loves son or daughter more than Me is not worthy of Me.
Continue to serve the Lord, but don't disrespect your parents in the process. Bring balance and order to your service.
2007-10-29 15:10:57 · answer #1 · answered by Sir Network 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do what your mom says.
If you believe so much in God, then you must know that he caused you to be born to the mother you have. She knows you best and knows the people you associate with. She will advise you out of love and caring whereas the people at your church will use God as a tool against your mother simply to keep another convert in the church pew.
Obey your mother. She knows you best and God gave you to each other.
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2007-10-29 20:23:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
She can force you not to go until you turn 18 (maybe that number's different if you live outside the USA) so you must obey her--part of being a good Christian, I'm afraid (Ephesians 6).
There are other forums that you can practice your faith, however. There are websites, of course (but I'd steer clear of here... quality control's slacking I'm afraid), and the friend who originally took you can provide you with some other people/places where you can continue to learn.
Some people are gonna tell you here that you must honor God above your mother, and to an extent they are right. But do your best to honor your mother and still fulfill your obligations as a Christian.
And seriously, SLOW DOWN! This fire you feel is gonna die down in a few months--not go out, but it will be more of a gentle, peaceful warmth than an overpowering inferno. Steady as she goes...
My email's open if you want to talk.
2007-10-29 14:49:37 · answer #3 · answered by SDW 6 · 2⤊ 2⤋
As long as your mother is not demanding that you not go to church any longer, I would keep going. When they have the altar call at your church, go down there every time and pray for your mother's salvation. You and your friend pray for your mother's salvation too, because where two or more are gathered in His name He is with them. Be faithful in your prayers and keep believing that your mother will accept Jesus too. The Holy Spirit called you first for a reason, and that reason may have been for your mother. Show her the love of Christ by your actions and words, and leave the rest up to God. God bless you dear one! I'll pray for your mother too!
2007-10-29 14:56:04 · answer #4 · answered by Virginia B (John 16:33) 7 · 1⤊ 3⤋
when she tell you that you are being fanatic she maybe a little bit exaggerated. may nobody hold you back from serving God. Not even your mother. However God commanded us to respect our parents. Now even though your parents are now holding you back from serving God, treat them with respect and show them that you change for good. in that way you will not brake any of God's rules. as for you parents i know they will understand you, in time(Ecclesiastes 3: 1-11, The Bible). And they will forget everything you've done before because they LOVE the person in you(Corinthians 13: 4-8, The Bible).
2007-10-29 15:04:26 · answer #5 · answered by Jay Aka. ngerkday 4 · 0⤊ 4⤋
We all Know, that we suppose to honor our paren'ts; but going to church it's not been, disobedient God said in His Words, We all should assembl y our self , that means we should go to church, if you are a believer, and if God says preach the Gospel you have to do want the Lord tell you to do, because if you don't, God would hold you accountable for this and we don't wan't to grief the Spirit of God, because God is not to be Mack, I know i don't want to fall, under the present of an angry God; ;;;; Matthew12;25 But Jesus knew their thoughts, and said to them; Every Kingdom divided against itself is brought to desolation, and every city or house divided against itself will not stand.;;;;; Matthew 12;30 He who is not with Me is against Me, and he who does not gather with Me scatters abroad. so you see, just keep on praying and make peace with your mom, and try to expline to her that you are happy going to church, and that the Lord have changed you and you are a different, person know, and leave it in the hands of God He would take care of this problem, because Nothing is Imposible to Him who is the most, High God. Be strong in the Lord and in the Power of His Might, be bless in His Name.
2007-10-29 18:42:43 · answer #6 · answered by Rosalinda 7 · 0⤊ 3⤋
No, I think you should keep going and keep trying to have a personal connection with God. I also think it might be a good idea for you and your mom to get some counseling together to work out your differences.
2007-10-29 14:44:15 · answer #7 · answered by MOL 3 · 5⤊ 3⤋
Mark 9:1
Amen, I say to you, there
are some standing here
who will not taste death
until they see that the
kingdom of God
has come in power.
(go to church and save your Mom
read the bible in thehouse please)
2016-10-01 15:23:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Respect your mother, but also try to explain to her why going to church has become important and meaningful to you. Why not try inviting her to join you?
2007-10-29 14:44:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
This seems easy but I realize why it's hard. Here are some Bible verses... God's voice to you... to think about and pray about:
Acts 4:18-20
18Then they called them in again and commanded them not to speak or teach at all in the name of Jesus. 19But Peter and John replied, "Judge for yourselves whether it is right in God's sight to obey you rather than God. 20For we cannot help speaking about what we have seen and heard."
1 John 2:17
The world and its desires pass away, but the man who does the will of God lives forever.
Be blessed and may God bring you peace!
2007-10-29 14:48:44 · answer #10 · answered by Cool Dad 3 · 2⤊ 4⤋