like I said had some lovely days out some days he would pay for taxi dinners etc ,the only thing he asked from me was to bring him some clark shoes from uk which I didnt mind as he was so good to me and my daughter first time around,since june when we met till today he as never stopped phoning me sometimes 2/3 times a day tells me how much he loves me and misses me,that he is going to try and get his papers to come and visit me ??Then a couple of days ago we was having our usual chat then asked me if I could send him some money to get treatment for his eyes whatever I could afford he as clucomer [bad spelling] which I knew about I have been to the docs with him to get his eye drops.I am not prepared to be a atm machine for him.no matter how much I love him ,Im gutted is this the real jamaican man showing his true colours?or am I reading into it too much ?I have 9 miss calls from him cant bring myself to speak to him,is it me he wants?or my money?thought he was one of the sweetest guys
2007-10-29 13:53:17 · 4 answers · asked by MADELENA S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like he wants to use you for money. Sorry but I'm amazed you love him after reading the part 1 and you know he has other women. Also, forgive me for being a young'n, but his age makes me wander as well. Maybe he really only wants it for treatment, maybe not, but i dont think you should give him the money he cause it may just be the start of something.
2007-10-30 07:40:37 · answer #1 · answered by chig 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like true colors.
I knew a woman from the Philippines who after almost a year wanted me to send her several hundred dollars for surgery. Problem is for $25 dollars, national insurance would cover medical issues and the amount of money would provide a family for more than a year of average income.
After some research (calls fo hospitals and Dr's, etc) the scam was uncovered.
2007-10-29 14:05:58 · answer #2 · answered by tigger1960jhv 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
they wouldn't be desert clarks by any chance?
my hubby is Jamaican but we got together over here. how much money is he talking? if its alot tell him you dont have the money. you will soon find out if its you he wants or the money. if he stops calling if you tell him theres no money then consider yourself lucky.
there has been many incidents where women have been tricked into fake relationships (and not just with Jamaicans) who have ended up with nothing left, so please dont take the risk. if he loves you, he will then still love you if you dont send the money.
PS. just because u have met his family/friends it does not mean he isn't trying to scam you. they could all be in on it to make it look more convincing. be careful and dont let your heart rule your head.
2007-10-29 14:03:29 · answer #3 · answered by gemma r 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you have already decided, the warning bells have struck, let it go. money and love at the start dont mix. just say no and see where it leads, keep those eyes wide open.
2007-10-29 14:20:00 · answer #4 · answered by andy F7 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋