First off, my entire extended family inculding aunts, uncles, cousins, cut me off 4 years ago. I was told by one wife of my cousin, "None of us want to hear from you, dont call us"
This was because i didnt call her husband (my cousin) for his 53rd bday.
The entire extended family backed off. its been 4 years and not one word from anyone..
Only the wife of a different cousin calls time to time, She is very fake and has Verbally abused me in the past. She talks like she knows from nothing i was cut off.
Shes been calling the past 4 years on labour day and thanksgiving, finding out what my holiday plans are and what im doing, obviously reporting back to them.
Shes left me 20 messages since labour day saying "I miss u, i care about u, i love u, call me"
I have not called and she wont stop, she dying to know what im up to for thanksgiving.
Shes not nice- in the past she has insulted and abused me, its all fake.
What can i do so she goes away forever?
2007-10-29 13:25:45 · 7 answers · asked by Jetglam 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
i also didnt go to the 53r olds cousins house for thanksgiving,,he was mad about that too
2007-10-29 13:46:37 · update #1
they want to control me including the cousinn
2007-10-29 13:55:05 · update #2
You can decide to have some fun...
How about feeding her some really choice bullcorn she can spread. "My guru down at the commune has us all eating deep-fried grasshoppers on our tofu" or "I've gotten so good at yoga, I can get myself off" or howabout "You know, ever since I spent last summer down at that nudist colony, I've been wanting to get back to the land."
Come up with the weirdest things you can, that still seem believable.
When you are done making a complete @ss of her, then you can block her number.
Life is short... insist on having the last laugh.
2007-10-29 13:40:38 · answer #1 · answered by revsuzanne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
with no disrespect meant, you're obviously withholding the entire story.
This makes it difficult to offer you an answer. And the two parts are seemingly unreleated.
I would in turn ask you to be honest with yourself and how you carry on in your relationships, be vulnerable.... what actions did you take in addition to the missed birthday? That may have been the straw that broke the camels back and there were probably other incindents. Families don't generally drop out of site for something that simple.
And if you are estranged with your family, I find it interesting that the one person who does call you you dismissively say is abusive (via phone) and want nothing to do with. If she trulyis that way, stand up for yourself and tell her, "i'd love to continue our relationship, but you must give me respect if we are going to have a relationship and I will give you that respect in return."
MOST family problems are lack of commubication and honesty. Its you're family. Be Vulnerable. Be honest... especially with yourself.
2007-10-29 13:41:40 · answer #2 · answered by Craig K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you're flying to Grand Cayman island for thanksgiving, taking a scuba diving training course and have a trip booked to a turtle petting zoo.
Seriously, fill her head with fabulous lies, she'll either be entertained or bored, either way, you'll be entertained.
Whatever you do, if you talk to her don't tell her anything that has a grain of truth.
2007-10-29 13:31:37 · answer #3 · answered by SolarWind 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you feel she is truly being fake, Id tell her to back off.
2007-10-29 13:29:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ignore her forever or show her and your whole extended family a pimp slap
2007-10-29 13:29:24 · answer #5 · answered by Ksdad A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are doing it. Do not respond to her messages.
2007-10-29 13:28:35 · answer #6 · answered by barthebear 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her she is a fake b*tch!
2007-10-29 13:30:11 · answer #7 · answered by BrittanyWhat? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋