i keep pushing him away from me, is this okay? cuz i dont want him to know that i like him
2007-10-29 13:23:39 · 7 answers · asked by I scream for ice cream 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he really is the jock type of guy and im really shy. i am not very popular at school but he is. can you also give me details to win a guy's heart?
2007-10-29 14:46:27 · update #1
i understand. i do the samething somtimes. i think it may be because your more attracted to his looks than his personality. if you felt totally secure, you wouldn't feel the need to protect yourself or hide your true feelings. or maybe in the past, you've been the clingy one and your afraid to let that happen again. just try to relax and let him see the real you, if it works good, if i doesn't there will be others. good luck(:
2007-10-29 13:34:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is something wrong here. You like a guy but you keep pushing him away.Is something the matter with you or are you just pulling a fast one(since you indicate that you don't want him to know you like him).If you truly don't want him to know that you like him----which means that he will ignore you and look for a gal who wants him----simply tell him to leave you alone and stop bothering you. I doubt that you will do that though because you enjoy the attention too much to give it up. Hence, why don't you end the games and the dramas and start trying to build a romance here with a guy who likes you.
2007-10-29 21:19:17 · answer #2 · answered by abbeycoolit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really like him, I wouldn't do this. Eventually he will feel bored and tired of being rejected so he'll move on to the next chica. Let him know you like him but dont come on too strong as I'm sure he likes the bit of a chase you gave him.
2007-10-29 20:28:36 · answer #3 · answered by FionaLeona 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no thats not ok...i do that once i have a bf cuz i am scared of getting hurt...the only thing that has come out of htat is fights nad breakups. be upfront or at least the same as you have alwasy been. if you avoid him he will start to think that you like him. if you get extra firty then the same thign will happen. you have to stay consistant. good luck
2007-10-29 20:28:28 · answer #4 · answered by 00000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No! Not okay! Just be his friend.
Why don't you want him to know that you like him???
In any case, you'll have no chance with him if you push him away.
-Kara
2007-10-29 20:28:19 · answer #5 · answered by Lily Ann 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wait, wait, wait.
If you like him, then don't push him away. That's idiotic, woman! Get to know him and talk to him. Maybe he likes you too(:
2007-10-29 20:28:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
of course not
2007-10-29 20:34:30 · answer #7 · answered by crazy gurl :p 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋