OK, my girlfriend of four months and I were talking today. For the past couple of weeks I think we have been discovering the large differences between us (even though we were best friends for two years). She told me, and I quote, "I don't think we're goin to work." At that moment the bell rang, so I told her we'd have to talk later. She IMs me later, though, and tells me that she loves me and she'll see me tomorrow. Before I talk to her tomorrow, I want to know: does she want to break up or not?
2007-10-29 13:22:18 · 43 answers · asked by Aidan C 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes.
2007-10-29 13:24:31 · answer #1 · answered by Sassafrass AKA: SASSY 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-26 01:09:31 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes and no. She said she loves you.....but all girls say that to take away some of the sting. Of course she loves you, and still will if you folks break up because you were her best friend of 2 years prior.
To answer your question....if she said what she said, then she's definitely thinking it. It's always hard to cross the friendship line and become exclusive boyfriend/girlfriend.
If you're as well seeing huge differences between you two, and have only started seeing them when you two are bf/gf, then something tells me that you two could be better off as just friends anyway. Once people start nitpicking each other and seeing each other's negative traits, it's a sign that the relationship could sour.
How do you feel? I think you'll still love her as a friend either way. But just hold out until you talk with her and see how she's really feeling the relationship and where it's going.
2007-10-29 13:30:48 · answer #3 · answered by foxsuite 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it could go either or. When you hear the 4 words "We need to talk" that means that your guys are gonna end. But she may also just be confused she might just miss her friend. And you guys may have been better friends then boy friends and girl friends, i think she might still stay with you if you can convince her that you two are good for each other. Or just take a break meet different girls and let her meet different boys, if its ment to be it will always find its way...i no its cheesy but it mayb be true
2007-10-29 13:32:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The female mind is very confusing. She might have just said that to get a reaction out of you. If she is making any attempt to be around you or contact you then she's still into you. If not and she is blowing you off and ignoring you well then she might be about to break things off. You know what shes gonna do deep down inside if you were friends before.
2007-10-29 13:26:35 · answer #5 · answered by KMGSP 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It soundz like she's confused she probably doesn't want to hurt you cos like you said you's were best friend for 2 years before jumping into a relationship together but in saying that she LOVE hurts and as you were her best friend for 2 years you should know her betta than anyone so only you and her know the answer to that......
Mayb she was having a bad day and you should have comforted her....Who knows - we females are easily persuaded into feelings.....That the opposite sex will neva understand....
2007-10-29 13:30:25 · answer #6 · answered by Rosey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why dont you try to sit down and settle your guys's differences. If she does want to break up with you ask her if you guys can still be friends. I think its better to still keep in contact with your loved ones. Hope all goes well tomorrow. I'm sure your a really nice guy & like many people say there's a lover out there for every one.....Good Luck!!!!!!
2007-10-29 13:28:42 · answer #7 · answered by Lil brittany 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like many people she looks like she is confused. She may love, you but she may also resent that you have big differences. Love is like a roller coaster and it will most likely go up and down like one. Their is no smooth relationship. Just sit down and talk to her. Ask her what she is feeling and tell her how you are feeling. Just work things out and talk about it. Just make it clear that you are not playing games and you want to stay together. Just clear things up so you both know that you want to stay together. Good Luck.
2007-10-29 13:30:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no..don't take things wrong.
maybe she just want you to change some things. it doesn't necessarily mean that. let's think on the bright side of life, OK? although there is some possibilty, but at least be positive.
your relationship is like a rope, it will go thru as long as you're both holding each ends.
2007-10-29 14:08:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
See if you can sort out the differences. If she is understanding n caring, u guys should talk it out. NOthings great than a caring partner. So, do not bring this topic urself again but try to resolve the difference. it will work. all the best.
2007-10-29 13:27:30 · answer #10 · answered by jd 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is probably having thoughts about it. Sit and talk again, she'll tell you she loves you regardless of her thoughts of breaking up, cause she could love you after if the relationship ends. You can love someone and not be with them.
So again, have a chat with her. Keep yourself on the same page.
2007-10-29 13:26:38 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋