long story ,,,I was cut off by entire extended family for not doing everything they demanded and refused to be bullied.
have not heard from any of these people in 4 years.
one person out of the 14 of them, my cousins wife has called every labor day and thanksgiving, talking like she knows from nothing i got off, she dishes for information about me.
Obviously shes reporting back to them, shes verbally abused me in the past as well and talked behind my back.
Shes left 20 messages since september saying "im really thinking of u and miss you i love you call me"
I have not responded, she wont stop calling.
I know shes dying to find out my holiday plans so she can report it back to the extended family..
How do i deal with her and get her to leave me alone>?
2007-10-29 12:22:27 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
Just talk to her and be vague about your plans OR change your phone number. Since the family cut YOU off there is no need for them to know your plans.
2007-10-29 12:34:03 · answer #1 · answered by EvilWoman0913 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I'm glad you have an answering machine. Hope you also have caller id. I had something similar happen and it can be incredibly annoying. I didnt want to change my number because somehow people find out the new one. If you can handle her calling and leaving messages-let her talk away-with the volume down. Hopefully she'll eventually get the idea.You can block her number-but she can always call from someone else's phone. Good luck with this.
2007-10-29 12:30:44 · answer #2 · answered by phlada64 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Obviously she reports to them which is not a bad thing. They need to know if you are alive or dead. Don't answer her calls and only let her know you are still alive by leaving little hints and don't give her more info than that.
2007-10-29 22:54:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋