Some-thing clever to make him think and leave you alone - preferably without swearing!
My 10 year old brother is being bullied and I don't know what to tell him of which he can say to get the bullies to leave him alone.
Thankyou for any suggestions - they will be very much appreciated!
2007-10-29 09:57:15 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Grade-Schooler
use the HAHASO method
Help
Assert yourself (look the bully in the eye and tell them to stop)
Humor (make a joke out of it)
Aviod (walk in a group or stay on the other side of the room/playground)
Self-talk (say postivie things about your self and keep repeating them)
Own it (own the put down ,agree with it, to throw the bully off)
2007-10-29 10:29:14 · answer #1 · answered by Ĵēńņĩƒėř 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 22 and I still remember my adolescent years in which I was a 120 pound weakling getting picked on. Bullies are like sharks. They prey on people they perceive as weak. I hate to say it but you little brother may have to get physical. That would be a last resort but it may have to happen. The good news is that once the situation with that bully is resolved no other bully will bother him.
2007-10-29 12:32:26 · answer #2 · answered by Leonard W 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One thing I heard recently in a Bully-proofing seminar is to turn to humor. If the bully is teasing the brother about his clothes for example, have the brother make a joke about the clothes too. If the bully sees that he isn't getting the reaction he wants he'll stop.
Next thing is to continue to walk away, get adult help.
2007-10-29 11:49:08 · answer #3 · answered by webtravelreviews 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well when my little brother was being bullied when he was 11 (i was 14) i told him to tell the bully that if he didnt stop picking on him that he would bring his big sister down to sort it out.. the bully carried on, saying he was lying blah blah blah so i sorted it out :)
2007-10-29 10:04:21 · answer #4 · answered by Keligh P 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey,im 12 and in 6th grade,my advice is too litteraly totally ignore the bully like,100% ignore,like they were never even there,and if they say stuff like "your retarted" or hey idiot,are you def?
then,uh well thats stupid,they just dont have anything els to say,those bully people are just jelous idiots who have to pick on people or else THEY will be picked on bcuz maybey htheere really ugly or they have a disorder and they resort to bein a bullie,just ignore them!!!!!!!!!!
2007-10-29 10:04:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your brother should be like "OH NO YOU DIDN'T". Also, a "TALK TO DA HAND CAUSE DA FACE AIN'T LISTENING" would be good. Add a nice slap for good measure. Also, he should do the z-snap right after the "OH NO YOU DIDN'T" while singing the z-snap song:
"Don't make me slap my fingers in a Z formation, exclamation, body rotation, talk to the hand, talk to the first, you can't talk to me because girl, you just got dissed."
2007-10-29 12:11:31 · answer #6 · answered by calamari kid 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he should tell his teacher and let him/her take care of it
2007-10-29 10:03:43 · answer #7 · answered by kdutton06 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋