I've just got back from a holiday in LA and on holiday my Boyfriend proposed, and i accepted, I went to work last Thursday and came home at luch because i wanted to make dinner for him, so i stopped off at the supermarket and came home, i could hear some music on in the bedroom, so i Went up, as i got closer i could hear some voices, i peeked in and i saw my Fiance and our cleaner in bed, there were no covers and i could see all. i went in, and they didn't notice at first but then i coughed and My fiance got out of bed and put a sheet around him and came over to me. i packed up a bag and have been living at my best friends house for the past week, i bumped into my cleaner in Superdrug looking at pregnancy kits, Also My Fiance has left 15 messages on my phone and has even waited outside my door step in the morning. He is now harassing my best friend, i feel so bad!!! PLease help What should i do, i don't know whether to go back to him or to Break up with him.
2007-10-29 08:13:56 · 27 answers · asked by Love_Me_Jaffa_X_O_X 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He has just rang, Apparently, My cleaner is expecting, i guess i should break up with him! i can't beleive how i didn't know this was going on.
2007-10-29 08:16:41 · update #1
OMG THank you!! All you guys are soo Good! I will Break up with him!! THank you SOoo MUCH!!! I CAN'T THANK YOU ALL ENOUGH!!! it's gonna be hard to pick a best answer!!
One Little question tho.....how am i to break up with him? Phone, person, text,email,??? Help!!
xxxxxx
2007-10-29 08:30:29 · update #2
just wipe him out of your mind and have some time on your own to enjoy yourself He's not worth the time wasted thinking about him
2007-10-29 08:19:58 · answer #1 · answered by Wendy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a loser - the sooner you get rid of him the better.
I wouldn't stress about HOW you dump him either - he sounds like a complete b******d to me, so you have every right to send him a text/email or whatever. He has shown you no respect or dignity, so I don't think you are under any obligation to do the same.
Poor cleaner - she's the one who's going to be stuck with this man!!
2007-10-29 15:41:45 · answer #2 · answered by Clare 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, dont sell yourself short at all. Do not feel bad about what he did to you. You dont have a really good relationship if your fiance is cheating on you. If you take him back he will assume that you will continue to allow him to disrepect you and hurt you. Do yourself a favor and leave him alone. You can do better.
2007-10-29 15:36:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your fiance is cheating then it's not a good relationship.
Tell him it's over and to leave you alone. He made his choice. Even if he playes the I'm sorry it'll never happen again and she means nothing to me card, he cheated once, he will cheat again. Be thankful that it happened before you were married.
2007-10-29 15:22:59 · answer #4 · answered by TAS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break up with him, and tell him straight. If he continues to contact you or your friends then you will get the police on him.
Also, if the house is in your name then kick him out.
Tell him face to face to show your sincerity. Also take a friend and make sure you get your message across.
2007-10-29 15:21:58 · answer #5 · answered by futuretopgun101 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave him!!! that is no relationship you want. Goodness he may even have a child now. You can find a guy that will love you for you and only you. I promise there is one out there just pray that God will lead you to the right one.
2007-10-29 15:18:27 · answer #6 · answered by barbie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Miss love me, Sweety for good men everywhere I apologize !My Xwife began cheating on our honeymoon and for 7 years did it behind my back. So again I apologize and am so sorry but you are beautiful and Mr. right is out there just ask Jesus to bring him to you !
2007-10-29 15:23:31 · answer #7 · answered by lonewolf 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First you think that what is the mean of fiance. You can leave easily he is not reliable as you mention. In love relationship partner must be reliable in every aspects.
2007-10-31 08:37:36 · answer #8 · answered by Goldie G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
once a cheater always a cheater so dont fall in to that trap, get away and start afresh because if you take him back he'll only hurt you again further down the line. good luck :)
2007-11-02 11:51:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi. the best thing to come out of this is. that you found him out before you got married..now she has to make the deciscion to stay with a lying cheat or to bring up his baby alone...you are worth better...tell him to take a hike .
2007-10-29 15:23:47 · answer #10 · answered by her with the mad ginger hair 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋