this girl at my gym has been really friendly with me the last few weeks after a few good convos(and was passing by me alot,was moreopen towards me and things of that nature)Today she did the same passed by me.But when she was on the machine and i tried to engage in conversation with her(all i asked was if she had an endorphin rush)and she said a litle bit.Then she said have a good workout hon and then we went our ways.Could it be that she was just busy?I don't expect her to like me,but why would she brush me off like this?
2007-10-29 08:11:21 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
Maybe she finds you annoying and creepy
2007-10-29 08:15:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Could have been a couple things. Perhaps when you asked her if she had an endorphin rush, she took it as a strong come on. Seeing as endrophins are supposed to make you really horny, and they say after exercising is when a lot are released. It might have made her uncomfortable. Or perhaps she was done her workout or was really into her workout and was trying to get through it quickly and with a lot of focus.
2007-10-29 09:39:10 · answer #2 · answered by Melissa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this the first time you've engaged her in conversation WHILE she was working out? I'm not a very friendly person while working out - I'm kind of in a zone. For example, I run outside on a trail and generally keep my head down. I've had friends who later say they saw me and said hello - I had to tell them I didn't even see them. Between my headphones and looking down, I can't greet everyone I run past so I tend to ignore people. Not trying to be rude - but I'm working out.
Don't take it personally. Just try again the next time :)
2007-10-29 08:23:48 · answer #3 · answered by jkc 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with the first answered. We all have days we aren't as friendly as others. A door can't always be open and do it's job as a door. :)
Try not to take it personally if it only happens every now and then. If it becomes a pattern though, that means her feelings towards you have changed.
Or maybe it just means she tried to show you she was interested in you but backed off when you didn't take the offered bait. :)
2007-10-29 08:20:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't be so sensitive. some poeple just don't feel like talking all the time. maybe she was busy, maybe she was in a rush, maybe she had something on her mind.... there could have been a million reasons. and btw, she didn't blow you off. it's not like she just walked away while you were talking to her. she said have a good workout and left. what more do you want. should she stay there and wait for you to finish your workout just so you won't be upset?
2007-10-29 08:19:33 · answer #5 · answered by M L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she doesn't know what endorphins are and wasn't sure what you were asking. She was afraid to seem uneducated or was afraid she might be talking about something dirty. Just smile and try again the next time you see her.
2007-10-29 08:15:41 · answer #6 · answered by friendlyadvice 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She could be having a "bad time of the month" or just a "bad day". Women. Just let it go and next time you see her, just simply say: Hi. How are you today? Hopefully your usual convos will return.
2007-10-29 08:15:54 · answer #7 · answered by DB 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the mind of a girl if men only new,lol.
She could have just had a phase or was infatuated with you, which means she was attracted but know is not. :)
What is it with men and blaming it on womens per**d, they did not ask for it you know.
she might have been or got tired of waiting for you to step up.
2007-10-29 08:16:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She probably was being friendly, not brushing you off. Instead of saying "Go away freak!" she complemented your bravery and intelligence in talking to her and then respected her by going away.
2007-10-29 09:29:20 · answer #9 · answered by Gigi_dontask 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it was a brush off, she probably was just not wanting to talk. Next time you see her just smile at her but don't approach her. If she approaches you then you are in!
2007-10-29 08:15:38 · answer #10 · answered by victoria 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just need to know you have no control over the way other people are just the way you react and deal with the way others are to you.
2007-10-29 08:15:27 · answer #11 · answered by lucy diamond 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋