I am an 18 year old female I have been dating my boyfriend for 3 years now and hes always asking my why I never seem to be in the mood to have sex. I used to when we first met and every now and than it changes but usually I'm never to thrilled to do it. I do it and enjoy it but if i dont have it its not a big deal. What's wrong with me?
2007-10-29 08:08:08 · 22 answers · asked by a_andrews07 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There's nothing wrong with you women just don't need sex the way guys do!! It takes a lot more stimulation for women to be in the mood! Men think about sex all the time just ask them!! We on the other hand don't !! Sorry guys!! He obviously doesn't get you in the mood first which can take time. Foreplay is sooo important for women not so for men they are always ready if you show them a boob they get hot so don't worry about it your more normal than you know!!
2007-10-30 04:39:04 · answer #1 · answered by Polar Molar 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all disregard "helpful steve" Next.....Are you taking any medication that could have an effect on it? You may want to talk to him about it and perhaps you could try some new things that may be of interest to you. You don't have to sit down and have a totally serious discussion but next time he asks you could say yes but you want to try something new and different. Nothing is wrong with you, there is a reason why we women make jokes about making shopping lists during sex. hahha Sometimes you just need a kick start and some new ideas to get things rolling.
2007-10-29 08:14:36 · answer #2 · answered by laughingatyou14 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because you are expecting love to come right at you. Making love not sex are two different actions. Making love starts in the morning when you give each other love note or call each other and say you miss them. If you two both spice up your love life things will get better. Also you both need to sit down and talk about what you want before, during and after making love.
2007-10-29 08:14:46 · answer #3 · answered by Kaya M 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I kind of actually have the same problem. Somtimes it gets old and you have done it so many times that you need a break. Thats exactly it. You need to take a break and stick with the basic things... or maybe you just need to be turned on more. Somtimes thats what it is for me. Nothings wrong with you, It's completely normal. Good luck!
2007-10-29 08:12:35 · answer #4 · answered by cass the shiz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothings wrong with you, you have been w/the same guy for 3yrs things get routine after that long. Think about things that do turn you on and go from there. Roll play is always fun.
2007-10-29 08:11:56 · answer #5 · answered by jo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ive been married for 3 years, and I feel the same way. Im guessing because you know whats going to happen, try something new with him. That may be the problem.
2007-10-29 08:12:00 · answer #6 · answered by littlecottontail03 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have the same issue more or less... it really depends on the person i'm with.. but for the most part Its neither tit or tatt for me.. I think our hormones arent as high as others and there's nothing wrong with that.. try lil games or sexual surprises to highten the moments.. I feel bad for my guy so I do that sometimes... =) or those sexual stimulation pills maybe.. but i haven't tried those..
2007-10-29 08:13:50 · answer #7 · answered by sole_survivor 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you work late or get up early in the morning?....tireness with the lack of sleep plays a big role....stress as well....and i don't think there is anything wrong with you....
2007-10-29 08:13:34 · answer #8 · answered by Vic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say something is wrong. Might not necessarily be just you. It might be something he is doing.
If you've gained or lost a lot of weight... that would explain that problem and a few more too.
2007-10-29 08:13:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have the same promblem..I never want sex I deeply love my husband but sex is another thing..If I never had it again I could care less
2007-10-29 08:11:43 · answer #10 · answered by Crazy cat lady >^ ^< 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋