Me and my boyfriend were casually dating for 8 months. Long I know but reason being because both of our past relationships were horrible and gave us some trust issues. Well we finally decided to stop kidding ourselves and make it official so we've been official for 3 months now.
Things are perfect. Hes wonderful to me and makes me happy and I do the same to him. We constantly tell each other how we're so happy to be with each other and how we're the best bf/gf we've ever had.
Thing is, we both have dreams where we get mad at each other. Like he just recently had a dream where I did some careless act and it made him mad at me in his dream. Another time he had a dream that I went to some party after leaving his house but I didnt tell him I was going I went in secret saying I was going home. He'll dream about that kind of stuff and I'll dream that hes rude to me or close to cheating on me.
Why is that? We're perfect in real life but horrible in our dreams.
2007-10-29 08:02:08 · 5 answers · asked by TheLight 5 in Social Science ➔ Dream Interpretation
There is nothing perfect about ANY relationship....if you both feel that way then you are both in denial.....and your dreams are more accurate depictions of what is to come.
If you to dont learn to communicate in the REAL world, then this relationship will end horribly.....which I'm sure will not be the end of the world because you sound like you are really young.
2007-10-29 19:06:21 · answer #1 · answered by eric54_20 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no such thing as a perfect relationship. I think you are having issues you dont wan to confront each other about in fear of breaking the "dream" life you are living. You are acting this out in your dreams instead.
2007-10-29 15:42:01 · answer #2 · answered by Swan 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You both are still hurting. Embrace eachother. And dont take eachother for granted or lightly. Rebound relationships are touchy situations. Dont let your expectations of him get overloaded because it will harm your view of him at the least mistake he may make. Remember human nature. Hope for the best and expect the worst.
2007-10-29 16:12:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Both of you do not trust entirely the other one Deep down your past and his past are there and you are affraid that one of you will do a stupid thing or will go back to his old lifestylke
2007-10-29 15:18:13 · answer #4 · answered by lala 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you are perfect in real life, but not in your dreams...maybe because in your dreams you're subconciously emitting all your anger and frustrations that u cant vent out in real life....hmmm
2007-10-29 15:10:35 · answer #5 · answered by jesse 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋