This love situation is driving me nuts...pls advise..do I have a chance?

Question

Ive had this guy friend for over a yr..we met in school and I moved to another state but we've kept in contact. Recently I visited him and we kissed but never talked about our feelings (as I had to head back home). Then he contacted me and I invited him to visit me. He said he'd love to once he gets some free time (he's a huge school load). Last conversation he asked how long I'm going to be around (as i'm thinking of travelling). Told him at least a few mths so he said maybe at next vacation he will visit but he's thinking of going to his parents instead (who live in another country). I told him ok & then sort of joking said that I wont invite him again! He got the joke & laughed. This is wrecking my head though. I know family is important but I feel I'm wasting my time. What do you think? Also, I'm the one who is now saying 'hi' on chat. Maybe its that its so long distance its difficult. Please help me? we're both single without kids.

Answer 1

And in a relationship with no guilding purpose so expect it to get harder and harder. Relationships without purpose or like people with out purpose's, amoral, and the pain and heart-breck shall reflect that. Lets just say there was a BIG F'IN reason we had religion, now we don't, no guiding light but our own ideals, understandings, and unfornutly insecurities, so hard stuff, hunnie, hard stuff..... so unless you guys state a purpose to it, be it friends, long distance lovers, and stay to that template, its going to fizzle out.....