Girls, if your new boyfriend told you he was bi, would you dump him and why?

Question

Why do so many of you assume you'd have to share him?

Thatgirl, why might he have lied? It might not have come up in conversation? How many men tell you they're straight when you start a relationship?

I'm really astonished by the number of people who think that, if their boyfriend was bisexual, he'd be dating a man at the same time.

Wow. People are ignorant.

Answer 1

No. If I wasn't married, I wouldn't mind dating a bi guy.

Contrary to what many people think, bisexuals are NOT more likely to lie, to cheat, to contract/spread STDs, to have poor hygiene, or to fulfill any of the other insanely ignorant generalizations floating around society.

And as far as worrying about the extra competition- Why in the world are people so damned insecure? Geeze, if that's someone's reason for not dating a bisexual then perhaps he/she shouldn't date until he/she has had some therapy.

Answer 2

Though I'm not a woman I thought this was a very interesting question and felt that I had to answer it buddy. I think that people should not worry about what others think about them because if they were Bisexual or otherwise that's part of who they are and this other person should accept it.

If I were in this person's shoes I would not dump them but would have to know that they were going to be faithful only to me as long as we were together. Good question and I hope I've been able to help.

Thank you,
And best of luck!!

Answer 3

As long as he was faithful to me probably not. but then i would be worried about him being out with mates staying over their house etc but thats me maybe im insecure i hav been cheated on so many times tho im not ugly take a look www.babesandboys.com naughty nurses 2007 im may and sept

Answer 4

This is something that you should not spring on someone. You should be upfront with this kind of info. Cause just like you see above there are very different people out there and exptreme reactions.

It would take a certain kind of person to be ok with it. Especially since you will have needs that she can't fulfil. and not all women are willing to share their man.

Answer 5

No, in fact I'd welcome it!

I'm so sick of society being down on bisexuals. They are honest about who they are, so why are people so repulsed by it? By rights us bi people should have the best sex lives ever - but in fact it's the complete opposite because of small-minded cretins.

Fopr the record, bisexual people DO have the capacity of being faithful - therefore you're not sharing with anyone. Why don't people see this???

Answer 6

Well, if he told me he was a bisexual, i have no problem with that. but i'd end the relationship, only because he's a bisexual and i suppose i'd have to move on. cause he'd be going out with a man as well as a girl, me, and he wouldnt be that interested in me. and it'd feel like he was cheating on me

Answer 7

Well my first question to you would be, what do you want out of a boyfriend? Are you just looking for a good time or someone to settle down with? If you just want a good time then have fun. If you want to settle down then you are just asking for trouble. Lots of people have fantasies about a threesome etc but in real life they very rarely work out. So unless you want alot of heartache, I would say run as fast as you can unless you just want to hang out and have some fun temporarily.

Answer 8

no, i really don't mind, dif answer u would have got if u asked me 5 years ago...
but since then i found that i like girls too, so if a guy said to me he hates being with a bi girl i will PUNCH him. :)

Answer 9

Yes, I would. I know some people don't mind , but I don't like to share or worry about both sexes being potential rivals.

That would be too complicated for me.

Answer 10

Probably. Could hold my own against another woman, but would feel insecure I suppose.
Why? Difficult to say.
Maybe because of inability to weigh up the opposition in the opposite sex.