It’s very difficult because no matter how nice I am, there’s still people criticizing me. I get really tired and frustrated because I want to make everyone happy. I’m getting tired of being what they want me to be and it’s very hard to get up everyday trying to be someone else I’m open for any suggestions, what should I do?
2007-10-29 07:35:10 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Try being yourself, no one is the same. There will always be some that will criticize you but as long as most people are ok with you then you shouldn't be so uptight and angry. If you really want to make friends then you might want to change slowly because if you suddenly try to be someone else the next day then they would think that your desperate and a wannabe. Preferably just try being yourself.
2007-10-29 07:45:54 · answer #1 · answered by Wilhelm G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that people warm to the ones that are quite confident in themselves and who they are.
I used to be really shy but as i got a little bit louder, i would make people laugh and this would sort of give me a buzz.
So i found being louder and making people got me more friends than just sitting in the corner listening to others talking.
Now i have lots of mates and its so much better.
I think that if you are nice, friendly, kind, caring and funny then people naturally warm to you.
When you show who you are, have the thought "this is who i am, I'm not changing for anyone."
People will start to see that there's only one of you and its worth getting to know you.
Just have a positive thought and think of something that makes you laugh so you have a smile on your face when you meet and talk to people.
Also when you meet someone new, pretend that they are the nicest person you have ever met and then they will think that your really nice, special and would love you as a mate.
Sorry for the long paragraph but its everything i think that might help you.
Good luck and i hope it works out.
2007-10-29 07:57:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why on earth are you trying so hard. You are wonderful the way you are. I think the person you have to make like you the most is yourself. It everyone has to be a lil selfish and arrogant. Do you see everyone around you going out of there way to impress each other? No. They like eachother anyway. Stop worrying so much
2007-10-29 07:42:57 · answer #3 · answered by Honey Bunny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing to do is to laugh at them or to tell them that there not exactly the bees knees and take the p*** out of them wen they critizise. because wen they see that u quite frankly cudnt give a s*** theyl relise that they cant just talk about u as if ur a bad movie or sumthin and more than likely the critisisem (can never spell that lol) will stop even if they still think that about you. after all you cant please everyone eh ? ur mates are the ones worth worryin about not them.
2007-10-29 07:46:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you impress everyone?...You can't. Absolutely impossible. So for gods sake dont waste your life trying.
I cant tell you how many successful people can be quoted as saying, "The surest way to guarantee being a failure is to try and please everybody."
Work on impressing the guy in the mirror. But I cant think of a better recipe for severe depression than spending your life constantly worrying about what everyone thinks of you
2007-10-29 07:42:56 · answer #5 · answered by WhatsYourProblem 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop trying to be what everyone else wants you to be!!! Why are you so worried about pleasing others when you obviously aren't happy with yourself!?! How do you ever expect anyone to like you for you when you're constantly pretending to be someone else!?!
Wake up girl!!! You need to be who you are and live your life for you....not others or you will never truly be comfortable in your own skin!
2007-10-29 07:45:37 · answer #6 · answered by Love Tha Skins! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't try to make everybody happy - it is impossible. There are too many full-time grumps out there in the world.
Make yourself happy and keep good relationships with people who love you and respect you. That will make those people - and you - happy. Start with you and then let it spread...
2007-10-29 07:46:38 · answer #7 · answered by ktkansas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to? You should worry about making yourself happy and then you will have more to offer others. If you are not happy with yourself then you can't make others happy and just like you, their happiness is up to them.
2007-10-29 07:39:05 · answer #8 · answered by laughingatyou14 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't impress everyone, you may impress some, you may impress most, but not everyone-- always keep that in you mind. as long as don't hurt anyone physically, emotionally, psychoologically, or spiritually do what ever you want... it's not always about someone, or everyone else. sometimes you have to think of/ for yourself.
2007-10-29 07:57:31 · answer #9 · answered by moose20070028 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can never make everyone happy. Believe me I've tried. Just make sure you are happy.
2007-10-29 07:39:00 · answer #10 · answered by Stefani 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋