I have been married for a long time to a man I love as a dear friend but not as a lover. I have been starved for a passionate, emotional connection for so long. Recently I have found myself in a growing friendship with an amazing guy who is much younger than me. We can tell each other anything. We have both confessed to having a crush on each other but havn't crossed that physical line. He gives me so much joy, I havn't felt in 20 years. Is this really so wrong? I can't give him up.
2007-10-29 05:53:08 · 2 answers · asked by loulou 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
maybe if your husband was keeping you busy (in the sense of love and sex) you wouldn't have needed this friendship.
because u know, think of it, if he were touching you and hugging you and telling you he loves you, plus giving you good sex.. then you would've wanted him and only him.
is it wrong? yes it is wrong. would it lead to something nice in the future? it's just like a drama, will reach a beautiful peak and will come down to a tragedy maybe.
i wish i could help. maybe you need to tell your husband that you too need time off together?
being good friends is great (with ur husband i mean). there are people who enjoy themselves in bed but can't go through the day together.
do something to your love/sex life. you need to experience new things together, you need time off together. try a vacation, and try to find things that can keep you attracted to your husband.
2007-10-29 06:08:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The new guy is probably using you for sex..
You only get out of a relationship what you put into it..
Work on the relationship you have, you start something new, you're likely to end up with nothing....
2007-10-29 13:01:17 · answer #2 · answered by Sophie B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋