Religion question ? Please help.?

Question

Me and my husband have been married for two years and we have four months old baby.We both are very religios but we are different religion. We didnt get married in church yet but we are planing on it some day. My questions is which religion do i acept ? I dont know anything about his and I feel that if I just go by his religion that I am doing wrong thing. We want to buptise our daughter but i am having hard time desiding in what church do we buptise her? And i feel like my husbant is not going to acept my < So what do i do ? How do I raise our daughter ? To respect both or what do I do ? Please help

Answer 1

Well I am in the same situation. I am a Christian, but I don't belong to any church. My fiance is Catholic. We have talked about this extensively. It is my opinion that baptism for children is not needed. They are born sinless so why baptize them? I don't get it. When your child is old enough to learn about religion, then you should each teach your daughter about both your religion and your husband's. Do not force either opinion on her. Let her decide. I have found God on my own. My family is predominantly Catholic, but religion was never pushed on myself. You should do the same for your daughter. Ultimately, she will make a decision. This should be her choice, not your choice or her father's. Good luck.

Answer 2

Take a class at his church to learn about his religion (together, I mean, both of you), and take a class at your church, too. Then the two of you can compare the similarities and differences in your faith traditions and hopefully reach a consensus on where you should be as a family.

Your daughter should be taught to show respect to all religions.

Answer 3

Talk about it and be respectful of each other. That all by itself will speak volumes to your child. I know some couples who have it done in both of their respective churches. Babies are usually Christened as a way of introducing them to the Church and have a Christening celebration afterwords. They will later make decisions for themselves to either be baptized or not..

I hope Your renewal of Vows goes well. Many couples did not have the money or the time for a formal ceremony.

Answer 4

First, you should learn how to spell. Second, why would you ask a bunch of strangers how to raise your child? Seriously, this is something that you and your husband need to discuss. Is there a problem with each of you spending time teaching your child the values and beliefs of your own religions?

Answer 5

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Answer 6

Rather than worrying about respecting both your religion and your husband's, how about respecting your daughter's religious freedom? When she's old enough to understand, teach her about both religions as examples of the many religions that exist. Whether she chooses to follow your religion, your husband's, a different religion, or no religion at all should be up to her alone. As should the decision of whether and where to be baptised. What possible reason could you have for involving a baby in a religious ceremony of which she has no understanding?

Answer 7

This is not your exact problem but before my wife and I were married one night we sat down and discussed the religion of our children. I am Jewish and she is Catholic. According to Jewish law the kids are Catholic. I asked her only once if she would convert to Judaism, she said no. She asked me once if I would convert to Catholicism, I said no. But we could not have the kids go to Temple on Friday nights and church on Sunday, it would be too confusing. I let that decision be hers, because she would spend more time educating them then I would. She chose Judaism. Our two Jewish daughters are adults now and I don't care if they become Druids. We raised them to be good people and I think we succeeded.

What you need to do is sit down with your husband and discuss, not argue, what is the best religion for your kids now. If later when they are old enough they can pick the right one for them.

Answer 8

My parents were of different churches as my mother was baptist and my father was catholic. They dealt with the same question.

They ultimately decided that they would instill in me the foundation beliefs that God is real, and the story of christmas, and easter, etc etc. but in the end, they wanted to allow me to choose my own religion once I was old enough to do so.

This was so until I was 11, and my fathers mother grew ill. She made it her dying wish that she see her grandchildren baptised catholic before she died. To this, my parents couldn't turn down so at 11 I was baptised and began going to religion classes, etc.

I'm not sure it made a difference as I had always prayed before bed and held general beliefs on my own. As a baptised Catholic, I'm still not 100% sure what religion I truly believe in, but I am very comfortable with that as I still do believe and that is what is important. There are so many religions, but there is only 1 God, and it does not matter what book you studied at the end of life. Only that you had faith.

Good Luck.

Answer 9

Sounds like you two need to sit down and talk about what each of you believe and what is important to you. Maybe even see a therapist to help guide the discussion.

My husband is Jewish and I was raised Lutheran so we've had many many talks and figured out we have the same values, even if we have different religions. So it can be done.

Answer 10

accept islam its the religion of all prophets from adam to mohammed peace be upon them all .Even jesus was a muslim and messenger of Allah.

The Great Challenge to Produce
One Chapter Like the Chapters
of the Holy Quran

God has said in the Quran:


And if you are in doubt about what We have revealed (the Quran) to Our worshiper (Muhammad ), then produce a chapter like it, and call your witnesses (supporters and helpers) besides God if you are truthful. And if you do not do it, and you can never do it, then fear the Fire (Hell) whose fuel is men and stones. It has been prepared for disbelievers. And give good news (O Muhammad) to those who believe and do good deeds, that for them are gardens (Paradise) in which rivers flow.... (Quran, 2:23-25)

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