just wondering the opinions of all men out there-
if you met someone say internet/out and about etc and she was pregnant but you liked her would you date her?,IF the father to be was out of the picture or didnt want anything to do with the baby would you get in a relationship with her?
2007-10-29 03:47:42 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This really isn't a question one could just say yes or no to. This is one of those questions whose answer relies heavily on circumstances. For example, the father to be may be out of the picture now, but will he stay out once she actually has the baby and he has a child in the world? There are a lot of guys out there that freak out when their girlfriend becomes pregnant and they walk away only to return after the child is actually born. That doesn't mean they return in a positive way. Often it's just their curiosity or a moment of guilt that brings them back and they end up being in and out of the child's life causing havoc for mother and child each time they return. No new guy wants to deal with that kind of situation, and that isn't necessarily because they don't want the responsibility. Having a child with someone is a powerful thing. No matter what, the two of you will always be connected because of the child and a new guy may worry that once the baby is born and the guy returns it may ignite old feelings.
All of that being said- if I really liked the girl and the situation was right I would definitely consider going out with her.
2007-10-29 04:09:16 · answer #1 · answered by Justmy2cents 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it would be ok - however, based on some of the other responses, watch out for the dogs out there only interested in having sex with a pregnant woman. Last thing you need is an STD on top of being pregnant. Establish a strong relationship with a guy first.
2007-10-29 11:00:10 · answer #2 · answered by Silversurfer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think any man would want to step into a relationship if you were expecting them to not only be your boyfriend, but also the father to your unborn child - they just wouldn't want the responsibility! If you make it clear that you don't want them to be the father then things might be different.
2007-10-29 10:51:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would a pregnant girl want to be dating. i would say she should focus all her energy and time on the baby and after it is born and she is settled then she can get back into dating. i am not a guy but i know a lot of guys don't like baggage
2007-10-29 10:52:59 · answer #4 · answered by snowflakes 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
No not if she pregnant if she had the baby already and i had kids thats a whole nother story
2007-10-29 10:50:54 · answer #5 · answered by Dr. Luv 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not? Life goes on and it is darned hard to live in a bubble. We are all different and learn differently and yada. Go forth and do some living.
2007-10-29 10:56:38 · answer #6 · answered by acmeraven 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hell yeah!!!!!!! being pregnant dont mean your broken.if any thing it means your emotions are stronger the sex feels better and above all thats a very good time to experiment you feel me.so yes i would date,hook up with,and even lay down with a pregnant woman.so if the bed is a rocking dont come knocking.LOL
2007-10-29 10:54:16 · answer #7 · answered by Freddy Alcatraz 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No, and thats a personal feeling. I want my kids to come from me, and whoever I'll be with at the time.
2007-10-29 10:51:20 · answer #8 · answered by juventus0151 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I would question her ability to be able to make wise choices in life...
2007-10-29 10:54:53 · answer #9 · answered by alphabetsoup2 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would!!! I love me some pregnant women!!!
2007-10-29 10:56:23 · answer #10 · answered by timmy boomstick 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋