Please give me some reasons. dont girls want kind hearted men? this girl i want to know is avoiding me for a reason i cant figure out. i make her laugh, ask if she's ok and tell her to have a nice day. im sick of this nonsense. why are girls like this.
2007-10-29 03:03:05 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This is the classic Nice Guy vs. Jerk dilemma. Women run like cheetahs from nice guys, they get profoundly turned off by them. Why?
Because nice guys are willing to be there for them whenever they wish. Nice guys are predictable; they seek women's approval. Predictability = boring. Women hate boring men, these boring men are also known as the nice guys.
Women are attracted to the unpredictable guy that will take them on an emotional roller coaster ride. They chase after the guy that womanizes like there's no tomorrow, the charmer that knows how to talk to any woman. The jerk possesses all of these qualities; especially a golden one that nice guys don't have: CONFIDENCE.
When you establish yourself as the prize, women will chase you. Making them chase you is what attracts them to you. Women want and always will want unavailable men; the unstable jerk that does not make an effort to respect them 100% like the nice guy. Nice guys are needy and clingy; bad boys are not. good luck buddy, hope this helped
2007-10-29 03:22:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not everyone will be to your liking.Try flexing a little.You can be anything you want.Try being a bad boy and see what that will bring you.You might be surprise.You could end up with a Spears,Lohan ,
tpye.Enjoy life .
Mohamed (Iam a decent man) but sometimes I like being a Mickey Orouke type.
2007-10-29 10:14:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not that many girls don't want kind hearted men as partners, but simply because one is kind hearted doesn't mean every girl he's attracted to will be attracted to him back. It takes more than just that quality for romance to blossom...
2007-10-29 10:14:21 · answer #3 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately some girls like "bad" boys. When she is ready for a long term commitment she will turn to you, IF YOU'RE STILL THERE. She will sooner if you ignore her or maybe confide a new "crush" in her. Even better, find someone who deserves you & ditch the game!
2007-10-29 10:11:05 · answer #4 · answered by TUESDAYSUX 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Girls fall for the a$$holes until they get to an age where there smart enough to know they will be happier with someone like you. Girls don't like the "nice guy." Why is that.. I don't know. Thats just how it is.. When you get to Age 20 ++ thats where they'll fall into your arms.
2007-10-29 10:08:54 · answer #5 · answered by juventus0151 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well all girls are different, maybe she's scared to like that decent guy or doesn't want a decent guy.
2007-10-29 10:30:05 · answer #6 · answered by op 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Two things:
-she's not into you
-you're getting involved with the wrong type of girl
2007-10-29 10:12:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe she is scared by you if you over do the decent thing.
2007-10-29 10:30:12 · answer #8 · answered by kodie4ever 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they are not decent gals thats why dear!!
2007-10-29 10:07:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe she just doesn't like you.
2007-10-29 10:06:27 · answer #10 · answered by Ralfcoder 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋