Man, my low self esteem has made me make big mistakes. I quit my job because I didn't think I was doing well enough. My boss offered increasing my salary to 80 k raise and then to 100k. It goes and then it comes back. I have trouble keeping friends. I get overly paranoid at work thinking that I am going ot get fired all the time. It is SO weird.
2007-10-29 02:56:11 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
Know that you are loved and one of a kind. You are an original there is nobody like you and there never will be You are unique.
Nobody has a clue as to what they are doing 100% of the time they just talk a good game. You have not gotten to where you are because you are stupid. And so what if you get fired is that the worst thing that could happen in your life ahhh nope.
Relax don't take yourself so seriously learn to laugh and have a good time. Friends are a dime a dozen. You are going to go through different friends your entire life we all do. Cherish your good friends while they are the ones in your life at any given time we can learn a lot from each one.
Change is not a bad thing it can be a good thing. Maybe you could get a hobby fishing golf hunting whatever your interest are. I took up scuba diving and it is a blast and I have meet many new people and we tend to hang out when we dive.
Get out and meet your life head on this is not a dress rehearsal this is the real deal. Remember we are our own worst enemy. Most people are so self absorbed they are not paying anybody else any attention look around you will see what I mean. They are not judging you as much as you think. They are thinking about what they look like what their kid is doing how are they going to pay for their kids education crap like that. Trust me I know I am a hairdresser lol.
Next time you get down on yourself take a deep breath and remind yourself that you are worth it and yoiu deserve the best your life has to offer and GO for it!!!
2007-10-29 04:08:00 · answer #1 · answered by mdjgirl7 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have confident on yourself..don't think that why, always think positive. You need to motivate yourself in someway because you're luck of self-esteem and confident. widen your mind.
Read alot of motivational and inspirational books, accept criticism, compliments and seek advises to your friends, family and loveones. I do believe that love and support from them can help you grow-up and competent enough to your work and environment.
2007-10-29 10:40:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey i now how u feel this may sound funny but try some meditation> Sufism helped me alot check it out
2007-10-29 10:09:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A psychologist can help.
2007-10-29 10:06:07 · answer #4 · answered by Me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋