Okay basically... My girlfriend's dad ended our relationship... I got to talk to her on the phone for 5 minutes that night, and she said that she still loved me and would wait till we could get back together, even if it meant a long time... Then gradually she stopped talking to me... Until two weeks ago(ish) she sent me a message that said "It's over. Forever. Final. No ifs." So I have no idea what's going on? She hasn't communicated anything to me... We both go to the same church and have a lotta the same friends, but I surrendered the friends to her, since she doesn't wanna be around me, I just stay away... Now I hardly have any friends, and the ones I did stay in contact aren't really hanging out with me anymore.... Ah! I dunno what to do... Do you have any idea why?
2007-10-29 01:40:11 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Snap man…I had a relationship kinda like that when I was in high school. The girl and I had all the same friends…friends from school, church, and a bunch of other stuff. She cheated on me and we broke up…she said she never wanted to see me again and she basically took all her friends with her. It was pretty bad for awhile…I still got a small chance to hang with some of my friends, but every time she came around she took them all cuz she didn’t want to hang with me. (high school was so immature)
Anyway, 2 months after we broke up we started to hang out again…though never started dating again. I got back in touch with a lot of my friends, which was great. Now that I’m in college, I look back and laugh at the whole situation.
Anyway, my point being…give it some time. Let things cool off for the both of you. She’ll realize that avoiding you is an immature way to handle it. Don’t let her get in the way of you and YOUR friends. Maybe someday…if you still have feelings for her…things will work out with you two. But yeah, they’re your friends too…don’t let her take that from you.
2007-10-29 01:50:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should try and contact her and find out what happened. Could be any number of things. Could be some of those friends decided to start saying bad things about you, or she may have met someone else, or many she just decided that it wasn't worth it to wait. The only way you'll know is if you ask.
2007-10-29 08:48:41 · answer #2 · answered by AnonOne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Any of those friends you surrendered still sympathetic? If yes, ask them to tell you honestly what happened to cause her to do that. At least you'll learn the reason. And it looks like you'll need to move on. Even if she was misled by her family, it doesn't sound like she's a very honest person.
2007-10-29 08:47:31 · answer #3 · answered by sci55 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i think she has somebody else and ur friends are trying to avoid u probably because they dont want to hurt ur feelings they probably know she is dating somebody else , i think u should just leave her alone and find u another girl friend or take u a brake we girls are sometimes stressful to guys well thats what they say take it easy pal
2007-10-29 08:48:16 · answer #4 · answered by julie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She heard something from someone.Someone is probably spreading rumors about u that is not true.ask one of your friends why they stop talking to you and you would get your answer.that's what I do all the time then I fix it .
2007-10-29 09:20:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guy With Question, also seems to be Guy With Answer.
2007-10-29 08:54:18 · answer #6 · answered by kansas_cookies_86 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋