ok so ive been with my boyf over 2 years. he plays rugby n so hes very popular, all the boys wana be him, al the girls wana be with him!u get the pic!so anway i met his mate and his girlfriend when we were out!and she was so rude to me, calling me by the wrong name ALL night, telling my b/f to go and sit with her friends instead of sitting with me!taking him away from me for ages and being all over him, sitting on his knee,telling him he's so gorgeous n hw shes known him 4 longer than me!!NWAY then she started saying "im so00 pissing you off arent i?" so i said "no" and she said "wel sorrrrrryyy NIT!but im jus wana them ppl who love pissing ppl off ALRITE!" and purposly dropped her drink all over my silk outfit! =( and she called me a p***y,who duz she fink she is?? and thers loads more but dont wana rite an essay!i dont know how to deal with ppl like that!how do i be with her next tym?be a B**** bak, or let her make me luk lyk an idiot agen?im 19 and her and my b/f are 21 HELP PLZ x
2007-10-29 00:05:54 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Stay away from people like this. You dont need this filth in your life. To hell with her she is a cheap o. Your boyfriend should have put her off but instead he played along with her. He is another waste of time, not sincere and dont care for your feelings. To hell with these trashy lot. Get on with your life, they are very jealous of you. Dont ever mix with them again. Your priotity in life right now is yur education and respecting yourself. Build up lots of self confidence and always remember you are the best. Dont ever let anything get you down. Most of all avoid these negative people.
2007-10-29 00:12:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your so called boyfriend let this happen to you, then he is not a very nice guy. You could do much better than him. I know the chick was a pain in the ***, but he has to take responsibility for what happened to you.If it was any of the ladies that I know, they would have left me and probably would have punched the ***** in the face.
Move on, find someone who will treat you like the lady you are.
Good luck
2007-10-29 07:14:16 · answer #2 · answered by Steve O 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well kinda interesting story. You have to face her up not with hatred to her but with love to your boyfriend. Untill you have the key to him she cant open the door. So always take chances to be with him. Well on the next time the girl shows up think something smart. They always say words are sharper than a knife, Kill her with it. This goes if u respect the age that is...and i prefer this way....:)
If you don care of the age then be vigilant when shes around and act bfore she harms you. When ur bf loves you there must be a specific reason find it and give it to him.
2007-10-29 07:19:04 · answer #3 · answered by hisham_htm 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not one to advocate violence, but I think this ***** is asking for a serious punch in the face. Or two. She only likes doing it because she's so obnoxious people don't know what to do about her. So give the wagon a couple of nice black eyes and break a few of her teeth - otherwise, don't hurt her. She's so provocative, it's a wonder nobody's done it already.
2007-10-29 07:12:16 · answer #4 · answered by Orla C 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Im sorry.. but i would talk to him and tell him how inappropriate it was for her to do all those things.. and he should have spoke up and said.."i would rather hang with my girl" or "please get off my lap, Im happily taken"
You aren't the only one that should b e standing up for your relationship.
It doesnt matter that she has known him longer.. you are his gf... and he should have stuck up for you..
Good luck!!!
I had a girl like that.. with my first husband.
I chased her down the street.. LOL.
She would sit on hims with these white pants kinda see through with no undies underneath. HELLO can we say Trashie!!! and falling all over him. and he said NOTHING.
He refused to.. and lets just say Im not longer with him.
He didnt want to stick up for our relationship.. then i don't need him.
2007-10-29 07:15:14 · answer #5 · answered by DrkBreizzy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You got to stay away from her. Never go to the same places as she does and if you have to be there, then keep your didtance. If your BF responds to her, then have a heart to heart talk with him, you can and will do better, no heartache is worth that.
2007-10-29 07:10:47 · answer #6 · answered by Dolly 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ignore her totally..and keep your hands on your bf at all times in front of her shes just trying to get a reaction from you if you dont play her game she will get bored and move on
2007-10-29 07:11:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you are pretty big headed and probably think a bit much of your self and your bf, she probably doesnt like you cos of this. . try and look around and dont look down on other people
2007-10-29 07:11:17 · answer #8 · answered by Kruger, Freddy Kruger 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Tell your boyfriend about it.
And also, pretend like you don't care, just yawn at them.
That's what I do, well, except the boyfriend bit. :)
2007-10-29 07:09:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
relax.. she is kinda immature and is finding u competition.. dont react.. play it cool
2007-10-29 07:11:09 · answer #10 · answered by who ?? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋