When we have sex she doesn't move she only wants to do missionary and im getting really bored with that and because of her lack of interest with sex in general its really bringing me down too. She is against me preforming oral on her because she says its awkward although when i do do it she loves it. She never wants to have sex and when we do she wants it done with just like that. How can i get her more into it i have bought toys and stuff but nothing has seemed to work Help me please
2007-10-28 19:08:08 · 10 answers · asked by The Failsafe 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Try romance and foreplay. She's a woman, not a man.
2007-10-28 19:11:57 · answer #1 · answered by Line 7 · 4⤊ 1⤋
You can work on making her feel less inhibited... but my guess is that there are some other issues in the relationship you need to sort out. Try making her feel more appreciated. If she has housework, kids to take care of, etc. try taking some of these burdens from her. Let her know that you love her, even during the times when the two of you are not together physically.
This should all help her to feel more relaxed and comfortable in the relationship, which should then carry over into the bedroom. You could then ask about some of her fantasies, as well as which ones the two of you might like to act out sometime. If you spice things up in the bedroom, there's no reason why she should remain uninterested... but if she still is, you may have to find a different girl. Some girls just enjoy plain vanilla sex, and there are guys out there who feel the same.
2007-10-29 02:19:40 · answer #2 · answered by Marc M 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
just ask her what she wants and tell her what you want (in a sensitive way) Tell her your stress about the situation and if she cares about you she will respond. Try to set the mood and don't start with the expectation of getting sex. Foreplay is very important for women. Get her really excited but wait for her to make the first move towards sex. This will give her control and make her feel better about the situation. Its good to ask quetions during sex to keep it good.
2007-10-29 02:17:50 · answer #3 · answered by ??? 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Porn movies, strip clubs, S&M dungeons.......seriously, find out what is going on inside her head. Why does she never want to have sex? Is she self conscious about her body? Is there a religious reason? Did her parents teach her sex is dirty? Is it painful for her? Is she not physically attracted to you? Get to the root of it.
2007-10-29 02:22:19 · answer #4 · answered by KhrisB 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
well maybe it has something to do with her emotionaly, you should try talking to her and asking her. if not then maybe she just isnt the kind of person that has a huge sex drive...ask her what she likes and see what turns her on.
2007-10-29 02:13:59 · answer #5 · answered by that girl. 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
try kissing her all over her body, move around alittle, do what turns her on, there are different things a girl would like, try different things.
2007-10-29 02:18:57 · answer #6 · answered by a francis 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Find a girl more compatible with your interests.
2007-10-29 02:12:43 · answer #7 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
talk to her and assure her her you are with her for her but passion has to be there. explain you want only her but need to try new things
2007-10-29 02:13:02 · answer #8 · answered by Psychologist In The House 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
You need to make more money.
The level of freakiness that any particlar woman will engage in with a guy is directly proportional to his income.
2007-10-29 02:13:21 · answer #9 · answered by Desperate Loser 5 · 3⤊ 5⤋
If she doesn't want to, you can't make her.
2007-10-29 02:11:08 · answer #10 · answered by Wolf Girl 4 · 1⤊ 3⤋