I have noticed a pattern with men: the ones that I completely ignore, and don't even attempt to contact, are completely obsessed with me. Yet the guys that I actually talk to and show interest in, don't seem at all interested. I have asked a few of my guy friends and I keep getting the same answer: guys want what they can't have. Why is that?
2007-10-28 19:00:34 · 5 answers · asked by lalalizzie21 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It has nothing to do with guys. It is even more true of women. There is no value in something that is not earnt, and there is no challenge, mystery, or interest, in anyone who freely puts out. Still don't understand? - study psychology
2007-10-28 19:07:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I find guys want what someone else has, not what they cant have.
Befriend his best mate and he'll want you more, at the same time your be playing hard to get.
It worked for me twice, with out realising it tho.
I gave up on trying to get his attention and diverted it to his mate, Now im engaged to the guy i wanted all along. At week 11 he had my name tattoed on his arm (in Chinese), Week 13 we were engaged, Next year we hope to be married. November 8th 08.
2007-11-01 09:36:34 · answer #2 · answered by sylv_chick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we would not get a long well.
Same problem here, the girls I like dont even look at me, the ones that do i have no interest in.
its tough.
2007-10-29 02:06:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Same reason women want what they can't have.
2007-10-29 02:04:06 · answer #4 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Same reason it appears you want what you can't have.
2007-10-29 02:04:13 · answer #5 · answered by EWSA_Tricky 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋