who has 2 daughters 4 and 6 years old?
I am going to be starting my career in a couple months as a Massage therapist. I am quite mature for my age I dont like to go to clubs and such. And i just wanted ur opinion
2007-10-28 18:42:30 · 15 answers · asked by vegaschick 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes, I think it's fine. I've always dated older men myself. Rarely have I ever been attracted to a "boy" my age. My husband is in his 30's and I am in my 20's and it's great!
2007-10-28 18:46:34 · answer #1 · answered by yeahyeahyeah 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well I was 23 when I married my husband who was 39 at the time. And it couldn't be more wonderful. As I posted in an earlier question..I have an ex who was my same age and is an alcoholic and a horrible father.. Not saying all men that age are that way but in my experience older men are more mature and responsible. My husbands daughter is only 6 yrs younger than me so she was already grown but I would have loved it if he had little daughters :) My husband cares for me and for my son from a previous marriage like he is his own. So if he treats you right and makes you happy I say go for it. Most of the people that I know that have married someone older are still happily married!!!
2007-10-28 19:21:00 · answer #2 · answered by Mommy to 4 boys :) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First think of the baggage and attachments this person still has. Are you ready to start your life with all this?
I think not.
I'd be looking to start with someone more in your age bracket without the ready made family and problems that at your age you just don't need.
But what the heck you're not going to listen anyway and you'll find out the hard way!
2007-10-28 18:49:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on the two people.Like you say some people are more mature than others.I would take it slow and don't get too attached to the kids right away,for their sake and yours.As long as there are two consenting adults,then there shouldn't be a problem.
2007-10-28 19:11:09 · answer #4 · answered by cog1233 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
age is not important. you can date anyone regardless of their age as long as your both comfortable with it. What matters more are his children if is he currently married? or separated? or divorced? The first case will pose a potential problem which you need to think a hundred times.
goodluck
2007-10-28 18:47:41 · answer #5 · answered by jables 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont see why not. to me age doesnt matter as long as the love and you both can work things out...he have 2 children ...i dont think 20 is a young age...i myself have a 2yr old son...and i dont go clubbing or party...
dont let this age issue and him have children bother you as long as you both can work things out....by the way....take good care of his 2 precious children...cause there his everything.
2007-10-28 18:48:38 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure. my boyfriend is 7 years older than me...i think after 18 age doesnt matter as much anymore..however if he was 40 or 50 i might stare at you funny, but thats just me.
2007-10-28 18:47:17 · answer #7 · answered by missliz_1986 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope, at your age, children should be show-stoppers. Don't date single dads.
2007-10-28 18:54:49 · answer #8 · answered by Level 7 is Best 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is nothing wrong with that. i've seen bigger age differences then that. age doesn't matter until u start talking about jail bait.
2007-10-28 18:46:37 · answer #9 · answered by chad_27292 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may be a nice guy, but I wouldn't take a chance on someone who has kids. Too many issues.
2007-10-28 18:45:38 · answer #10 · answered by The Hard Truth 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋