Me and the person Im in a relationsip with made a pact to tell all. If anyone approaches us or tries to "holla" at us, we are to tell the other. We even go so far as to admit temptations and thoughts. Are these grounds for a thriving, healthy relationship or is this something that will eventually hinder us.
2007-10-28 17:38:55 · 4 answers · asked by Zon B 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it will definitely hinder you ---- trust each other and keep talking you dont have to tell everything that goes on because truly its only interesting to the person having the thought
2007-10-28 17:48:44 · answer #1 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep there is a thin line between being truthful and being way too freaking open. As for telling each other that someone approached you as in flirting or whatever isn't so bad. I mean my parents do that all the time. And they laugh about it, because they have been married so long. But if your dude is hyper jealous about such things, I think its best to not mention things that would drive his blood pressure up. Also don't mention overly intimate things, like you are having dire cramps or how heavy your period is. I mean you have to keep openess on a need to know basis. I mean just like with the flirting thing if nothing really came of it, why even mention it? Now if you seen your ex and he kissed you, not as a hello but like you guys were still dating that is something that needs put on the table. So having decent discreation is a must. A very large must. And remember NEED TO KNOW BASIS is the best time to be honest about anything. If its not necessary to bring it up then don't.
2007-10-28 17:56:56 · answer #2 · answered by Cursed_Romantic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is better to truthful and honest in a relationship then to not be. You can never be to open if that is how you both want the relationship to be and thats how you are as a person. I would rather know everything and anything my partner wanted to tell me rather them keep it a secret from me, but thats not to say if someone approached me or did holla at me that I'd have to tell the other as it does mean that I'm going to hide things from my partner. It means that you are both comfortable with each other and that you don't have to tell each other of your days every moves or what happened in them. If I wanted to tell my partner every step of my days routine and what happened then I would or if they asked then I would just be honest and open about things.
But there is no line between being truthful or to open as it is better to be open and truthful about things then to hide things in a relationship.
2007-10-28 17:58:43 · answer #3 · answered by Dancegirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
confident, if somebody is like 14, and the different guy or woman is 23. If somebody is 40 3, and the different is fifty two, then no, no longer possibly. i think everywhere from one million-12 years of an age hollow would not make a distinction. yet additionally the time while your dating can count number.
2016-10-02 23:40:06 · answer #4 · answered by pletcher 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋