I want to learn to be nicer!?

Question

I asked this woman, but as a top contributor, her contribution seems to be little.
http://answers.yahoo.com/my/profile;_ylt=AiXif4fuSPrkNTzEv5r_o9De7BR.;_ylv=3?show=WuYiCqVaaa

so I ask all of you, how do I become a nicer person?
I believed in this woman, and as a top contributor, she has let me down.

I really need your help ever so badly! I'm a lost cause according to this woman!
oh plz, won't you help? excuse my spelling I'm trying to get this all out of my head!


thanks so much, I know all of you wont dissapoint me.

down with the wicked THING!

Answer 1

ok i just read both your question & your answer from the top contributor.

1. she was very rude, ignorant & blew things out of proporstion. & NO you are not a lost cause, i dont know how she even became a top contributer with that attitude & she is the one that needs to work on her manners, because that was neither lady like or polite.

2. dont worry about your manners because you said you clearly stated that you didnt want to embrassed your father or anyone else & hes upset because he called you three times.

3. maybe you should seat down & tell him your side of the story & if he doesnt like it or doesnt want to hear it then its not your fault if hes closed minded.

im on your side with this one. but if you want help with manners then you can always ask your parents or who ever because even if your 20 we still make mistakes & are still learning.

or

just come to him the next time he calls you to adviod the unessary BS

Answer 2

well, i think that fact that she said you're a lost cause means she needs to be nicer and learn some manners herself.

its hard to say if you can "learn" to be nicer. you have to put yourself in the shoes of others when you might be acting rude or mean to someone. see if you would like to be treated that way. we are all human and we have compassion towards one another, so its somewhere inside of you, you just have to look for it.

i highly doubt you area lost cause...after all you didnt kill anyone, youre a young adult figuring things out....dont let narrow minded stuck up people like that lady be the reason why you think u may be a lost cause.

look within yourself and truly ask yourself if you ARE a nice person. if the answer is yes, then you must work on showing that externally, because im sure you want people to be nice and respectful towards you, therefore you should return the favor.

anne frank: "in spite of everything i still believe that people are really good at heart"

dont worry your not a lost cause

Answer 3

Okay, first of all no one is a lost cause - so don't put yourself down that way.

Obviously, I don't know you personally, but "nice" things to do can be to:

Smile when you meet eye contact with someone in a friendly way.

Be courteous - treat people like you want to be treated (the Golden Rule)

Thank you and please are always appreciated. If you see someone needs help and you can help (like opening a door for someone - open the door).

Remember, it's the little things in life that matter the most.

Just wanting to be a nicer person is a HUGE step in the right direction.

Keep Smiling!

Answer 4

I'm like that sometimes. Like before i go to school, i think to myself "I won't be mean to anyone no matter what", but then i still am (just a little). But when you're looking at people you're about to be mean to, just think about how you would feel if someone said the same thing to you, or just put yourself in their shoes for a day. I know it sounds like everything else you've probably ever heard, but it really works!!! Or maybe think back to a time they were nice to you, or they were nice to somebody else. See their real character. So tomorrow, just try to start over with a clean slate! Be nice to anyone you can. Good luck and have a nice day tomorrow!

Answer 5

A lot of people say that I am a nice person.
Well, if you want to be nice and also look nice try these:
1. Smile to anybody even to a stranger. It will lighten up their day.
2.Be very polite to me and women. Open the door for both of them.
3. Try to cut off the cuss words(if you cuss)
4.Try not to lose your temper.

Answer 6

Treat others the way you would want them to to treat you...
Respect others.
Think before you speak.
Show compassion
Be sincere/truthful
Offer compliments.
Be a good listener.
Don't boast/brag about yourself.
Be more giving, not a taker...
Smile and be joyful.
Go to Church and read God's word thats a start in the right direction.

Answer 7

Nobody is perfect. Even top contributors. To ere is human to forgive is Divine. Is there anything in her answer that you can use? Accept that. How about some of the criticism? Remove the harsh and look at it again.

Answer 8

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Answer 9

Practice what you will say during the course of the day. People love it when others smile and when others remember their names. Be aware of what others need, be aware of when others need space or need someone to listen. Decide others are nice and act accordingly.

Answer 10

listen more soyou can others feel emotions what they feel and second smile help people out more give lots lots lots of hugs and you should be alright