There this guy that I first of all never would have thought I would have fallen for because he’s not my type of guy or I would have any interest in, he’s more of an average Joe, I usually go for the pretty boys or the bad boys. As for me, people would say I look like beyonce (face features) with a Jessica Alba body, I’m not conceited or anything but I feel like there something about this guy. I got to know him for two years now and every time I see him I just get this feeling in my stomach and I don’t know why I feel this way about him, and I notice him staring sometimes when I walk by his office or when I come in to work but it doesn’t bother me because I like him. But I know he won’t make the first move because he’s my manager. Everyday when I would come to work it would look like he was happy to see me and usually he isn’t like that with other employees, and sometimes there would be a little flirting going on but not too much because there
would be others around and there’s that sexual harassment thing but I would never write him up for that. But I’m not sure why I feel this way, I think it’s because I’m single right now and he’s single also, I’m twenty-one and he’s twenty-nine, recently I just quit my job and I can’t stop thinking about him. I use to work at a sporting store and I felt like I was doing a two persons job or maybe even three and the pay wasn’t cutting it, besides people would quit and that would make it hard for us employees because we had to work out a schedule but that’s besides the point. I’m not sure what I should do, since I quit which was about a month ago, I can’t stop thinking about him, and wondering if I should go to the store for a visit sometime and see my coworkers but really its to see him, but on my last day my manager walk me out and I notice that he never did that with the other
employees who left, he walk me out all the way (outside) the building,and we said our goodbyes and he said he’s going to really miss me, and gave me a hug which was a long one and then I left but I’m wondering if I should stop by the store for a visit or just let it go and move on. Can you help me out and give me some suggestions???????? Or maybe the reason he didn't want to make a move was maybe he thought I would reject him or maybe it was because he was my boss I don't know maybe that or something else. If I did go back to the store to see him, do you think he'll be happy to see me?
2007-10-28 16:55:52 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I get the feeling that he might be a little intimidated by me because I've been told that by guys, so I guess that's why he won't make any moves first.
2007-10-28 18:00:56 · update #1
yes he will like you for you. go see him
2007-10-28 17:06:31 · answer #1 · answered by cece 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow. that was a LONG question. so, first of all, OF COURSE he'll be happy to see you! that's a given. since you don't work there anymore, he isn't really your manager or co-worker or anyone like that. he's now just a regular guy and that means it's completely ok for you to visit him, talk to him, flirt with him, or anything else you'd want. so, you should drop by the office sometime, say "hi" to everyone there, and chat with him... maybe invite him to go eat of something. then, see how things go from there. you'll be able to tell if he has a thing for you and if he does, then go for it :]
2007-10-29 00:02:59 · answer #2 · answered by miisty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes...I think you should come back to visit him. He has feelings for you and so do you. You like him..then go after him! you might regret it later if you don't do this...I would say GO FOR IT. . . who knows cuz he might be ur true love and so yeah!! you two will make a good couple!!! Base on the fact that he's a nice guy.
2007-10-29 00:06:00 · answer #3 · answered by â?}-{annA]-[?? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most guys that arent hot or bad boys dont make the first move. well if you want to sit there and wonder for the rest of your life than go for it. but if not get your booty to the store and talk to him see how he feels and you tell him exactly how you feel. go for it. always remember two positves makes a negetive. but two negitives makes a positive. ( thank god for math)
2007-10-29 00:16:34 · answer #4 · answered by *****heart***** 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should go visit and say hi....i think he likes u.....well im just a kid what do i know.......but from my perspective he waz into u and he didn't know how to tell u...he is prob thinkin about u as much as u thinkin about him......but by now he has prob moved on cuz ur still waitin around....go 4 it....it might help all this anxiousness.....GO 4 IT GRL.....lol...o by the way he is not ur boss anymore and that gives u a chance to b with him with out all the drama at that store.......plz vote me as best answer...plz
2007-10-29 00:07:13 · answer #5 · answered by shanteria13 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
blah blah blah blah blah blah blah.....
Look, you obviously like the guy. So go visit and make a date already.
2007-10-29 00:04:15 · answer #6 · answered by rohak1212 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh
to long a question
srry didnt finish reading it
but he probably likes u
2007-10-29 00:00:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
That was too long to read... Just give him some booty,
2007-10-29 00:00:34 · answer #8 · answered by djbred18 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋