2007-10-28 16:45:39 · 52 answers · asked by tony s 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no.. they should talk about it first before making a move..
2007-10-28 18:17:25 · answer #1 · answered by beaT_FreaK o2 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
There is more to it than being right or wrong. Ideally, men and women would be strong enough and tactful enough to hold a face-to-face conversation and discuss it maturely.
Unfortunately, this is not always the case. There are some people who are afraid of conflict and they will try to hide instead of discuss the issue. This does not mean that they do not respect you - it means that they are too scared to face you. It does not matter if you would never hurt them or not. The over-riding fear can be enough to make them hide and the email then seems to be the safest option to them.
If you or a friend was recently dumped this way, don't focus on the way you (or your friend) were dumped. Don't try to find rhyme or reason as to why she decided to end the relationship either. All you will do is hurt more and more on things that you may never understand.
Instead, focus on the positives and negatives of her and the relationship and learn from it. What qualities will you no-longer put up with in a woman you are dating? What qualities are you looking for in a woman you are dating? Each failed relationship you go through gives you an education on what you want or do not want in a partner.
Keep your eyes open and do not ignore the "warning lights" when you are dating somebody. If you see warning lights in your head, chances are that your relationship will fail.
All the best!
PS. I am sorry for jumping into your question directed towards the ladies but I do know what I am talking about here.
2007-10-28 17:08:39 · answer #2 · answered by mgctouch 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um, no. I would never dump someone via email, that's really inconsiderate. Whether or not there's a reason, I would at least do it in person. And if I ever did have to break up with someone, I'm sure there would be some kind of reason, or else I wouldn't actually be breaking up.
2007-10-28 16:48:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is always a reason for everything, but I think it's tacky and heartless (not to mention spineless) to end it with someone without facing them when you do it. It leaves the dumpee feeling confused and that there was no real closure. Also, as was the case with your question, it can cause a guy to think there were no valid reasons for the break-up.
Unless a person has cause to fear a violent reaction, they should always offer the opportunity for their "newly exed" to ask questions and try to understand what's gone wrong. You never know when you might run into somebody years later, and you'll hate yourself for being so cold.
2007-10-28 16:56:22 · answer #4 · answered by jenjenta 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO please do it on the phone. If there is no reason make up a reason. Say you don't think you guys connect or something say you're not ready for a relationship. Don't make up a hurtful reason haha. And yes definitely do it on the phone but not on a voice message that definitely hurts and not by text messages. It has to be a convo. =)
2007-10-28 16:51:14 · answer #5 · answered by noname 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No! I think that email, a letter, or even over the phone is really LAME!!! I think a girl should have the guts to tell her guy something like that in person if at all possible! But, that's just my opinion...
2007-10-28 16:49:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anna 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Dumping ANYONE throught e-mail is soo elementry schoool. & why would you dumb someone for no reason? There is always a reason why you don't wanna be with someone even if it's just you lost feelings for them. & everyone deserves closure and to know.
2007-10-28 16:49:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It isn't right to dump a guy (or girl) by e mail. Period.
2007-10-28 16:48:41 · answer #8 · answered by Faerie_Queene3 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no. i don't believe that any person will dumped someone without any reason, there always a reason. any respectable person will tell a person things like this in person and be honest about the reason why no matter how hard it is.
2007-10-28 16:52:36 · answer #9 · answered by OuzieM 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No thats just wrong. I think you should at least have the decency to tell them face to face and give a reason for Dumping them. Thats just heartless, selfish and cruel.
I hope thats not happened to you babe.
*hugs* xxx
2007-10-29 04:12:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You do know that there is only one answer for the way you phrased your question. Logically and ethically its a no. Why post this question if you already know the answer. Btw, i believe everything happens for a reason.
2007-10-28 16:49:43 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋