I really like this guy a lot. We have a ton in common. Unfortunately, we met when he just got a girlfriend.
2007-10-28 16:39:36 · 22 answers · asked by Lexie =] 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well its hard to say to make him choose but you have to ask him how he feels about you. Does he have stronger feelings for you then her? I think you should continue being freinds and soon he'll realise he likes you much more and hopefully will dump his gf to be wiht you.
hope it turns out well xoxox
2007-10-28 16:44:01 · answer #1 · answered by Ewa S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately honey he got a girl already. If you guys had so much in common he would have been dumped his girl and went to you. But of course why let go one when you can have them both and you are being foolish enough to entertain him. Duhhhh! it would never work so get over it and find someone thats in to you and only you.
2007-10-28 23:52:09 · answer #2 · answered by mellymel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're serious then you want things done proper and inability to communicate honestly with a partner is not a part of a lasting relationship.
Dating should be done to get to know people and the exclusive part is another step established after a choice is availed and made.
2007-10-28 23:51:34 · answer #3 · answered by Arnold D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put yourself in the other girl's shoes. How would you like it if your boyfriend became interested in someone else, and she encouraged it? If he breaks up with the other girl, then he's fair game, but until and unless that happens, he's off limits. However, I don't think I'd want anyone who is that fickle. He may do the same thing to you. Think about it.....
2007-10-28 23:47:39 · answer #4 · answered by gldjns 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if hes not breaking up with his girlfriend to be with you right now then hes not as crazy for you as you think.No offense but theres a reason he hasnt dumped her for you, if you two are so in love then she wouldnt be in the picture at all.Sounds like you may be getting played.
2007-10-28 23:43:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't get mixed up in the middle of it. If he has a girlfriend - he would more than likely do the same thing to you honey! Save yourself some heartache.
2007-10-28 23:45:11 · answer #6 · answered by MaggieSue 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree a lot with what others are saying. I am in a similar situation and I am starting to see the light. If he wanted to be with you he would be. Honestly do you want him if he could cheat on her, he could do the same to you when the next one comes along. You deserve to be THE ONE!
2007-10-28 23:47:29 · answer #7 · answered by MeMe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, there's nothing you can do, it's all up to him as he's the one with the girlfriend. If he has feelings for you as well then he needs to tell his girlfriend he doesn't want to be with her anymore. You will need to talk to him about it and whether you want to take this thing further.
2007-10-28 23:43:35 · answer #8 · answered by Monkey007 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think of the other girl, How would you feel? Take a step back, and wait til he is ready for you. If it was meant to be, you will be together. If he likes you he will be yours in the end.
2007-10-28 23:44:00 · answer #9 · answered by DanniM 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he thinks he is falling for you also, then you two need to discuss this. If he is...then the girlfriend has got to go, obviously he is not that into her if he is falling for you.
2007-10-28 23:43:40 · answer #10 · answered by cutesquaw69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋