We dated for about 2 months and after we broke up he started dating my best friend. when they broke up he came to be saying he loved me and was only happy with me. I beleived him but then he started asking my best friend out again...samethign happened 3 times...What should i do
2007-10-28 16:38:37 · 28 answers · asked by B4Eva4gotten 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
we dated for two months and less then a week later he was dating my best friend. When they broke up he cameback to me saying he loved me and was only happy with me when i said i couldnt date him yet bc he hurt me too much he asked my other friend out that night. He did this 3 times. I thought i could handle it but idk wat to do
2007-10-28 17:08:07 · update #1
Stop believing his BS. YOU are letting this happen, get on with your life.
2007-10-28 16:41:26 · answer #1 · answered by cimra 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well, first I don't think that she is much of a best friend if she is dating someone that you had just broke up with. I think this guy is the kind that just always wants to have someone ( girlfriend ). So he is going back and forth between you two to see which one is going to accept him back. He does not "love" you, but he may like you and is confusing it with love. You need to tell him to not come running back to you when he and your best friend break up because you and him are no more, unless you still have feelings and would like to work it out, but you do have the problem of the "best friend" being the other girl. I guess you are okay with your friend dating your ex, if not you need to let her know because you not saying anything makes her think that you are okay with it.
2007-10-28 23:55:21 · answer #2 · answered by carsgrl2003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok heres the truth about men. I dated my ex two years ago and guess what he dates other girls and then comes back to me when things don't work out or he tells me about everything that goes down between them and tries to make me jealous. Well guess what it works sometimes and it doesn't sometimes. So here is what you need to do....
1. Move forward with your life.
2. Tell him the truth that you no longer have them feelings for him.
3.Do not let him run to you anymore when things don't work out between him and the new girl your not always going to be there.
4.If you do love him try to work things out if no then you need to move on with your life and let him know that your his friend but you really do not like him running back to you unless he is serious and wants to date you and only YOU.
2007-10-28 23:43:53 · answer #3 · answered by boychooser14 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Takes two to tango.He may be a dog but maybe you need to look at your friends to.Don't forget the saying either if you lay down with dogs you'll likely get fleas.To many fish in the sea to worry about that one.Go find a nice one.They are out there.Good luck!
2007-10-28 23:45:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't fall for it again. Just ignore him he is just desperate to be with someone all the time. He figures since you guys went out for two months that you will take him back whenever he is without a girlfriend. Tell him no next time and your friend should also do the same.
2007-10-28 23:42:45 · answer #5 · answered by asdfghkl 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Okay, you totally need to stop talking to him. Friends come before guys. Okay!? I can't believe this best friend would even go out with your ex-boyfriend, and that you allowed her to, then you went back out with him, etc..! Don;'t you guys find it a little strange!? Have a girls night, slumber party, or whatever and talk about what's going on in this friendship! Girls don't go out with their best friend's exes! You seem young, maybe middle school or younger, so learn the lesson while you can!
Best friends do NOT go out with each other's boyfriends!
PS: That guy is a player and deserves to go out with no one.
2007-10-28 23:43:26 · answer #6 · answered by noname 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Firstly, what the hell happened to the girlfriend code with like rule in the top 5 is "You don;t touch your freinds exes!"
Secondly, this guy sounds like a bit of a loser, stay strong and kick him to the curb! (did i sound like ricki lake?) Why bother entering and open old wounds when he has a track record. Your only hurting yourself, he sure as hell isn't getting hurt...
2007-10-28 23:43:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
he is a dirtbag, run and don't look back. also you have to question what kind of friends you have?! your friend shoudn't be dating a guy you dated..unless you completely don't care but it sounds like you do..this is only the beginning, he's a liar, you don't need him, god only knows what he's telling your friend too
2007-10-28 23:50:57 · answer #8 · answered by pj26 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drop that guy like a hot potato!!! The next thing is, what is with your BEST FRIEND? She is no better than him.....
You need to start making new REAL friends....no one around you seems very loyal.
2007-10-28 23:43:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Of course he probaly still likes you and tries to make you jealous and asking all of you friends out. Simpaly tell him, "what ever his name, I don't love you anymore and i don't you should date my friends anymore and then come back crawling to me". I really hope you can figure things out. Good luck! =D
2007-10-28 23:43:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋