Me and my ex broke up like 4 days ago.Were still in highschool and i see him everyday.He told me he would like it if we were friends but he totally igmores me now.All he does is just look at me then look away.What is his deal?!
2007-10-28 16:35:54 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Not knowing the depth of your relationship,I would say,your commitment was much deeper than his. Regardless. its over, and YOU should go on with your life, and realize that you will have many more relationships happily in your life. You should ignore him , unless he approaches you. The more you act bothered by the break up, the more you will not be able to let go.. The only way he will be back with you is to use you. Don't let that happen! Move on with your life. Its all good in front of you, and now look forward to your next new companion. Do it, and three weeks from now , you'll see things completly new.. Keep going on about him and this not meant to be relationship, and you will just continue to be miserable. Believe me, its not worth it , move on. Good Luck !! SOLOMON
2007-10-28 16:52:53 · answer #1 · answered by solomon 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess he's lost interest in the romance part of your relationship, and just wants to be friends. If he's ignoring you, that's part of the game. Maybe you've been too pushy. I'm sorry to be the bearer of bad news, but maybe you should look around for someone else. At your age, it's very rare that relationships last very long. You still have plenty of time to find Mr. Right, so don't agonize about Mr. Wrong.
2007-10-28 23:42:52 · answer #2 · answered by gldjns 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey girl,
High School, Every day? How can you expect for the both of you to "get over" a relationship and then low and behold become "friends?" Plus see each other every day. The transition is quick and difficult.
Listen to what he told you. "He would like it if we were friends."
This is how he Broke it off with you.
He let you down easy, because he did not want to hurt you by saying out-right, "It is over."
2007-10-29 00:12:27 · answer #3 · answered by Flo-Jean 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Read the book "He's Just Not That Into You" by Greg Behrendt and Liz Tuccillo. You can't figure out what "his deal" is unless he tells you, and it's just going to frustrate you to try and explain his behavior. Instead, you need to figure out what YOUR deal is, and look for a guy who wants the same things you do! To quote from the book: "There's a guy out there who's going to be really happy that you didn't get back together with your crappy ex-boyfriend."
2007-10-28 23:48:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The deal is girlfriend get over him. He is over you and a real friend don't leave you hanging, so that means he was never a friend to begin with. You said you are in high school move on there are more boys out there but you let them come to you. Good things come to those who waits. Just say NEXT!
2007-10-28 23:43:01 · answer #5 · answered by mellymel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well some people think that when you brake up you don't really stay friends because it's like if one of you liked the other but you broke up they still like you but they don't want to ask them out again because they just broke up and think it might be embarrassing to ask you out again but if you already have a new boyfriend.it's awkward. Also I think bots can be weird sometimes.
2007-10-28 23:48:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are many reasons...
maybe he doesn't know how to be just your friend.
Maybe he needs more time to get over the break up.
Maybe you are handling things better than him and that is making him feel strange.
Maybe he is confusing your friendship with trying to get back together.
don't worry about it. if he wants his space, give it to him. let him show you how much, if any, contact he wants to have. just remember, don't be upset if he said he wanted to be friends and then ends up ignoring you. it is possible he didn't realize how hard it would be to go from being your boyfriend to just being your friend.
2007-10-28 23:45:09 · answer #7 · answered by viper_ej 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hehe.... I remember those days. That's what you call IMMATURTY!
Just ignore him... It's a phase that you all will go through... He is probably embarrassed by whatever he did.
Go about your business and ignore him. He will come around sooner or later. It takes time.
2007-10-28 23:40:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes probably getting over you. this happened to me before and you just need to wait it out. when hes ready he'll talk - but don't try to make him jealous, thatll only lead to trouble (from personal experience)
2007-10-28 23:39:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, he's probably hurting really badly from the breakup. chances are, he's confused. He's trying to adjust to not having you. don't worry about it, but be normal around him.
he'll get over it.
Good luck!
Nikki
2007-10-28 23:41:49 · answer #10 · answered by NJW 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋