Am I a bad person?

No thats normal....I would say you waited too long to date again.

2007-10-28 16:07:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋

Why would that make you a bad person?
If it had been a week I might be asking if maybe you were just not comfortable being alone, but a month doesn't seem like an unreasonable time. Everyone grieves at their own pace and it depends on the circumstances of the relationship and the break up too. I don't see why moving on would make you a bad person.

We are in this life to live it. Good for you for getting on with your life. As long as you are not looking to replace your ex or try to win him or her back by making him or her jealous, and as long as you keep in mind the fact that rebound relationships are notoriously tricky, I don't see what is so "wrong."

Ultimately I also have to add that if you went out on a date the next day, you wouldn't be a "bad person" in my book, you would be a person doing something that that might be considered bad (I would see it more as a person acting from pain, but you get my point.) No bad people, just bad acts.

Happy dating.

2007-10-28 16:16:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋

No, I think it would have been just fine for you to start dating someone else right away. I am sure your ex has already found someone else and even if he hasn't it doesn't matter because he broke up with you. The only reason you should stay single now is because you want to and/or you don't feel you are ready to date anyone else. Nothing is there to hold you back. Go out and enjoy life and have some fun.

2007-10-28 16:09:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋

When you say "breaks up with" I'm assuming there was no marriage there, but, in either case, I'm not sure anyone here on Answers can say whether you're a "bad person" for wanting to date someone only one month after you break up with someone. I dare say that you're "slow to action" compared to me, and it's been a lonngggggggggggg time for me to realize that I might be a "bad person". I just have to realize I ain't the best person around, and go on with Christ. God Bless you.

2007-10-28 16:11:24 · answer #4 · answered by ? 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋

Are you wanting to date your ex again, or someone different? I don't think anyone can say you are a bad person if you are following your feelings and not being mean.

2007-10-28 16:08:22 · answer #5 · answered by the_red_head02 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋

of course you are not. sounds like you were ready to move on and that's healthy. who is to say that there should be a time frame placed on the length of time it takes to get back into the dating game after an ex breaks off the relationship. i could see if you were so hung up on him and were not willing to break things off with him and you felt that you couldn't live without him and were hanging on...have fun, and have lots of dates i wish you the best

2007-10-28 16:15:53 · answer #6 · answered by thecatmama 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋

Unless both of you have radically changed, why would you want to go back and relive a relationship that didn't work out the first time? Save yourself another series of heartaches and boldy move forward, onto bigger and better things.

Granted, people and things can change, but one person can't make all of the needed changes...it takes both people to make good things happen.

2007-10-28 16:13:10 · answer #7 · answered by Khalen 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋

No Your not bad for feeling that way why would it be bad? But try and think are you wanting to date for the right reasons! is it because you are truly over him? Or is it because you want to make him jealous???....
But only you know what you feel inside... Move on sweets there are so many nice guys out there go for it..:)

2007-10-28 16:10:39 · answer #8 · answered by Amy J 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋

I assume your "ex" is an ex-friend of the other sex and not a spouse. The answer is NO. You have no obligation to "become a nun" or a "monk" after this split. Put it behind you, and others will find something else to gossip about soon enough.

2007-10-28 16:09:10 · answer #9 · answered by cattbarf 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋

No if you feel like ur ready to move on then don't let anyone make you feel bad for that...you are your own person if your ready than go out and start dating again

2007-10-28 16:08:11 · answer #10 · answered by ry ry 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋

Well YOUR ex broke up with YOU........according to your statement. So it makes sense that you weren't ready to end a relationship, so why not jump back in to the dating scene?

You are not a bad person............unless of course your ex broke up with you because you're a two timing creep.

2007-10-28 16:08:43 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋

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