Six months ago I was seeing my friend/co-worker. We were together for a few months and things were good except I have panic disorder (triggered by something totally different but it affected all my decisions) and I just ended it. He was terribly hurt (although I did not know that he felt that strongly about me).
We are now back to good friends and spend quite a bit of time together.
2 weeks ago we were out and had a few drinks and we kissed. Since then he has been hot and cold. I asked him 'what's the go?' and he says he doesn't feel the same about me anymore. On the Saturday night we went to visit him and he was asleep... he seemed to wake and started kissing me and we started sleeping together. He seemed very into it and was acting normal for the situation. About half an hour later he stopped and then said he couldn't do this, and said he had no idea what was happened and was upset. Now things are terrible. I still want to be with him and my panic disorder is fine now. HELP!
2007-10-28 15:25:22 · 1 answers · asked by SultiPep 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Seems you need to say down some of that righteous confusion on him, and make him answer. Short of that is well you going crazy, because I'M confused myself. Seems typical thou of an individual fighting with his sex drive AND his intimate deep feelings for his friends, things of love stories really. But you not talking more honest is the big deal someone has to lay it down, if not him, then you ask what the f is going on! If he can't give a strait answer, take a step back, and realize, your wasting your time with this fella.....
2007-10-29 14:48:44 · answer #1 · answered by Brutal Honesty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋