So me and my ex are still like seeing each otehr and the oterh day i asked what we were and they said that they love me still and stuff but we are not going out but at the same time they still love me and we are still kind of together. what does this mean, should i stay where i am??
2007-10-28 14:33:31 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think that you 2 need to think about whether or not you really care about each other. if one of you dont then i think you should move on and maybe you will find someone right for you
2007-10-28 14:37:26 · answer #1 · answered by jessica_305 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You keep using the word they as if you are talking about more than girl. Since I don't know the answer, I am going to respond as if you are talking about one gal and that the use of they in your piece was a mistake.First of all you are either broken up or you are not.If you are exes, then you are not going out. You may be trying to talk to each other about a reconciliation and getting back together but until you arrive at a decision you are still out.If you guys have determined that you still love each other, then settle your differences ,clean the slate,get back together, without any confusion. Those are your choices short of doing nothing and remaining exes.
2007-10-28 21:51:06 · answer #2 · answered by abbeycoolit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You love a "they"? I don't know that group love is ever a good thing. It sounds like they aren't really sure if they want you back and maybe they're trying to find someone else in the process. If they aren't showing you that they love you, then I wouldn't believe them.
2007-10-28 21:37:08 · answer #3 · answered by Kitten Hood 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Triangle relationships can be very complicated. Issues as changing relationship patterns and loyalty conflicts will undoubtedly sufface again. Are you willing to work it out ?
My suggestion is that you seek out professional counselling. We all need guidance and instruction to help us build open and honest,stable relationships.
Good-luck to you.
2007-10-28 22:55:08 · answer #4 · answered by crystal 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no you shouldnt stay where you are, she isnt making a commitment and one day she is going to meet someone else or start seeing someone else and you will be left heart broken. if she cant comitt then im sorry but shes just not that into you anymore.
2007-10-28 21:38:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋