My pastor runs from me when I go to the alter to give my offering then goes back when I am in my seat. I wear long gowns and little up however I used to work as runway model in paris and did pageants for a long time so I take care of myself physically. I am afaird that I am tempting him for whatever reasons. I really love this church however I feel that he is having a really hard time with me being there? Why and what should I do besided pray?
2007-10-28 14:11:48 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
LOL. are you praying for your pastor, or for YOURSELF. Trust me, dear, if you fear that our pastor is tempted by your beauty and therefore is unable to to remain at the alter when you walk by...then you need to be praying about yourself, not him. There are much more things to be focused on in church besides the every move of the pastor when you give offering. Maybe he walks away because you are always staring at him!
2007-10-28 14:18:47 · answer #1 · answered by sexy law chick 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would talk to him. If you don't think he'll do it face to face, or you'll afraid to, start with a phone conversation. Explain that you love the church but are beginning to feel uncomfortable about being there. Maybe there is another reason why he walks away? Finishing some last minute thing? Checking on something?
pray. talk to him. Good luck.
2007-10-28 21:16:03 · answer #2 · answered by heysifti 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Pray for the words to say, and then confront your pastor, who knows it could be nothing, and if he is good man of the cloth he should be ok with this questio. Pastors are there to listen and guide, not judge
2007-10-28 21:15:29 · answer #3 · answered by mandyb 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
The pastor is not the whole church.
2007-10-28 21:14:44 · answer #4 · answered by James O 7 · 4⤊ 1⤋
Talk to your pastor about it, and then decide where to go from there!
2007-10-28 23:03:02 · answer #5 · answered by Emma's Mummy!! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For some reason I have a feeling that you aren't telling the whole story. Perhaps you are tremendously ugly, or a flaming lesbian or something. Maybe you are a vocal, well-known atheist in your town and you are just trolling.
2007-10-28 21:15:46 · answer #6 · answered by Eleanor Roosevelt 4 · 2⤊ 2⤋
your pastor is running to the bathroom to do something.
if you stay he will continue to do this thing.
Who knows whats hes doing?
2007-10-28 21:17:05 · answer #7 · answered by ~I wish you could smile~ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you should find a different church. Your pastor should not be running away from you, that sounds ridiculous.
2007-10-28 21:14:47 · answer #8 · answered by wolfdancer 2 · 1⤊ 3⤋
church is not about the pastor its bout the ppl
if you like it then stay
2007-10-28 21:14:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Regarding your statement,would you submit to
a lie detector test?
2007-10-28 21:21:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋