I have a really big crush on my friend and i'm really falling for her. she's so beautiful and pretty and she's so smart. i see her every day in math class and when i see her i get butterflies in my stomach and go weak at the knees. she has this natural sparkle in her eyes and it just takes my breath away. i really really want to hug & kiss her. her kiss has to be like heaven. i always think about her when ever i'm not busy and i get the feeling that she's the perfect girl for me. we're only 16 now but i can see myself marrying her in the future. the thing is that i don't know how to tell her and ask her out. i freeze up when i try to ask her and i don't know how to ask her. i'm on good terms with her and she always tells me how smart i am and how much she likes my name. i really need help with asking her out. i think i'm falling in love with her and i want to be her bf and i don't know how to ask her.
2007-10-28 11:17:04 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
When she talks to you and complements you just tell her how pretty she is. Like tell her that her eyes are pretty. A boy that always made me feel good about myself wrote me a letter and told me how beautiful I was and asked me out. I didn't go out with him because I was already going out with his best friend but the note really flattered me. Write her a letter and tell her how beautiful she is and ask her if it would be alright if you call her or she call you. That's all you have to do. Don't tell about the butterflys in your stomach until later on in the relationship because she might think you are falling for her too fast okay.
2007-10-28 11:24:29 · answer #1 · answered by Sexybrowneyes7553 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
FIRST,TAKE A COLD SHOWER.
Think up a fun date that you both would like. Something close and personal. (a picnic, horseback riding,) not a movie;
so you can talk and get to know each other outside of school.
Then next time she is available between classes just say I'd very much to go on a nice______________bicycle ride, picnic, whatever._________with you. Could you go this next Saturday (or whatever day will work) BE BRAVE. Keep it simple. You could even include several other people. And say a BUNCH OF US ARE GOING to go________this Saturday I'd love it if you would come with me.
lots of luck.
PS. don't ask her to marry you on the first date...that can be a turnoff.
2007-10-28 18:26:46 · answer #2 · answered by Lyn B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simple:
Ask her if she's available to date (no boyfriend and OK from parents).
Invite her to study with you in the library, or to a school function, or to your family Thanksgiving dinner. Invite her to the prom.
Wait on the kissing - guys kiss way too freely. Who wants to be with a guy who's kissed 20 or 50 or 90 girls? Not me. What if your first kiss was at the altar on your wedding day? That would really be a kiss. Just kiss her hand.
2007-10-28 18:26:40 · answer #3 · answered by frillyfroofroo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
aww, wow u rele must like her...she must be a rele lucky girl...tell her everything u told us. that shes beautiful and when u see her she gets week in the knees....any girl would love to hear that...then ask her out...come on! she will be rele lucky to date a guy like u...be confident and dont be scared. goodluck and just go for it!
2007-10-28 18:22:25 · answer #4 · answered by justinnnnn7 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋