am i over reacting? should i just talk to new people?
2007-10-28 11:04:39 · 17 answers · asked by TMT 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He probably doesn't want you to hear his wife and chidren in the background.
2007-10-28 11:09:54 · answer #1 · answered by Computer Guy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are not mature enough to ask the hard questions you might not need to be in a relationship?
there is a possibility that while this guy might like you he may not enjoy talking talking on the phone?
If you are looking for external validation in a man your in big trouble. Men are just not built that way.a woman loves to plan, plot, connive, manipulate, cajole. a woman likes to believe that she is some how special and think that if she tries hard enough she can control the future. Men on the other hand just want to get through today. Men like to keep in simple, convey the message in as few words as necessary, short sweet concise. a woman is more of a Nester planer, muti taster, at the tender age of five a little girl already knows that is going to get married and have baby's and some one has to foot the bill? at five most little boys just want to shoot stuff and play in the dirt. men are more in the moment, what do I have to do now in this moment? Do you think that guys sit around all day thinking about you wondering what your thinking and how you feel. the answer would be a big no. you should be grateful that this poor schmuck had a free moment and was thinking about you and he was thoughtful enough to text you that's huge .
2007-10-28 19:38:46 · answer #2 · answered by Super Star 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My guy and I text a lot. It's because where we work it's just easier to text than to talk on the phone. It looks unprofessional for me to talk on the phone during a meeting, so I text under the table... *shhh*... and he isn't allowed cell phones in class so it's just easier for him to text under the desk like I do...lol. He's probably busy. If he lost intrest he wouldn't even be texting you. And yes I think you're over-reacting.
2007-10-28 18:14:35 · answer #3 · answered by freakmebabyaddicted 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should try calling him. He might not have called you because you didn't call him. He could have feelings too you know. Just talk to him and see what's going on. You had the guts to ask this question that stranger's are answering so you should have the guts to ask a guy you know.
2007-10-28 18:08:15 · answer #4 · answered by Rubber Ducky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if he only texts I would think he's a tad lazy. I would talk to new people and keep my options open.
2007-10-28 18:08:14 · answer #5 · answered by Monkey007 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's in college.
He's busy.
And you ARE over reacting.
Talk to new people in the meantime if this is nothing serious between you two.
2007-10-28 18:07:54 · answer #6 · answered by *miss k 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Texting is the new calling. Don't worry.
2007-10-28 18:07:18 · answer #7 · answered by trombonegirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some people don't like talking on the phone. but if he used to, and now stopped, move on.
2007-10-28 18:07:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not something you should jump to conclusions for. Try calling him yourself. Ask him directly if he has interest in you or not.
2007-10-28 18:07:17 · answer #9 · answered by yangsunwoo 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he might jus be relly bussy to make a call rather than texing. always keep ur mind open. he might come around. jus wait!!
2007-10-28 18:07:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋