nothing gets her out of my mind??

Question

i met this girl 14 months ago and things went very well for the first couple months and then we told each other that we liked each other. then things got even better as each day went on and i grew to love her but didnt tell her until 6 months after we met. the circumstances in which i told her werent ideal since i just got back from a trip to a friends house out of state. she wasnt happy i went since the person i met was a girl that i knew for 12 years.when i confessed to her that i loved her she said she had the same feelings. things were great until school started in september. she grew distant with me and eventually it got to the point where she wanted to go out with other guys and leave me behind as just a friend. i am finding this hard to deal with since she hardly talks to me now. nothing i do gets my mind off her. sports,school,ive even tried playing videogames since i know those get you to concentrate on them. nothing works its been about 2 mon. any suggestions? i lovedher lots

Answer 1

You need to find something else to hope for, fight for, its the nature of love. It's about purpose. You've made her your purpose in life and everything else just seems small. Its takes time, it takes passion, it takes some self-understanding and patients. Try reading a book, it requires more concetration and allows you to actually think about your pain for her, while your doing it, and that actually adds to the experience. You don't need to forget her, you need to come to terms and use this experience to grow, short of that, is this wonderful personal heck your putting yourself thru, your choice, your life.....