i'm scared to tell my parents, because my brother says that they will never believe me. i really feel bad about this. he started doing this last year when i turned 14, i'm afraid that maybe its my fault because i didn't say anything then.
2007-10-28 10:26:31 · 11 answers · asked by Nikki 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
everytime i just about to tell them i stop...freeze up completely.
He left for university in ny two years ago and then transferred back home last year. thats when he started act so differently...he has done things to me that i never want to admitt to my parents. it makes me feel all sick inside.
2007-10-28 11:01:06 · update #1
Just kick him until he gets out or tell your parents. Why wouldn't they believe you..
2007-10-28 10:30:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK first off-it's not your fault. Maybe you should have told your parents when it first started, but it's not too late. Your brother sounds like he needs some help, either professionally or at least some counselling. Get a lock for your door and if your parents ask why, just say it will feel safer for you. If they question further, tell them outright what's been going on. They might not be as cynical as you think.
2007-10-28 10:42:54 · answer #2 · answered by phlada64 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It isn't your fault and you shouldn't feel that it is. your brother may need help but he may just be doing this because you haven't said anything. the next time he does that, you might go ask to sleep with your parents and tell them that he is in your bed. tell him you are going for a drink of water and he may still be in there for them to see. If you have a cell phone, you may also be able to punch in their phone number but don't hit dial until he is in your bed and when the phone rings and they see it is you they will come to see what is going on and find him there. Of course, you might be able to kick him in the right place when he comes into your room and he will be laying there in pain when they come to see what the screaming is all about. you have to do something though or it may be someone else in another home next time and he might end up in prison somewhere. Good Luck to you!!
2007-10-28 11:00:24 · answer #3 · answered by Al B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, you need to tell your parents. Do not be afraid, and don't let your brother intimidate you. Be strong for yourself because if you don't speak up he will continue to do it and he may end up doing more. You are completely innocent in this. And don;t be afraid that your brother might get in trouble. He needs to! If you don't step up, be brave, and do the right thing your brother will continue to violate your space. You DONT deserve that! So be brave. You can do it. Tell your parents. Don't be shy or ashamed either. You've done nothing wrong to feel that way. He's the one that should be ashamed of his inappropriate behavior.
Be brave. You can do it.
2007-10-28 10:40:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh honey, firstly its not your fault, never think that, & secondly you must tell your parents, what your brother is doing is very wrong. I am sure that if you explain what has happened & how it makes you feel, that they will listen to you. Your brother only tells you they wont beleive you, to stop you from telling them, so please go right now & tell them. You must not let this go on, you must be very frightened, & i feel bad for you.
Go now, be brave & it will be ok.
2007-10-28 10:39:39 · answer #5 · answered by 7ala is fluffy ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay you need to tell them....quick, why is he sneaking in their, does he have nightmares. I see that your are 14, is he older than you??? What is he doing when he gets in the bed with you? You need to give us more details, and you definitely need to tell your parents. You should not be scared to tell your parents anything.
2007-10-28 10:42:59 · answer #6 · answered by MadameJazzy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your brother to stop. If you can lock your door do so. If this doesn't work tell your parents. They may not believe you but you will have done your part. If they don't believe you and your brother contiues tell another adult you trust.
2007-10-28 10:33:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well tell him now to get out and never get in your bed again. If he does start screaming and let mom hear you and your brother will get the message and respect you then.
2007-10-28 10:37:16 · answer #8 · answered by JoJoBa 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you should tell your parents and if the don't believe you speak to someone in your school, kick your brother in the nuts and tell him to get the f*** out of your bed good luck
2007-10-28 11:38:58 · answer #9 · answered by sourmoments 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope you're not joking around with this. This is serious and you need to talk to either your parents or a teacher or someone you can trust. This is not right and it has to stop!
2007-10-28 10:35:07 · answer #10 · answered by Pretty Woman 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋