she be saying negative stuff and always be nosey. i dont not like being around her at all i know iam wrong try to avoid being with my aunt it just she say what are you doing ,always being nosey around me and my mom. i like when she a work. me and my mom live with my aunt.
2007-10-28 10:26:20 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Sounds to me like she's getting all up in your business. Just tell her straight. Go up to her and ask her why she's behaving that way. Plain and simple. If she thinks that you're being curt with her then tough. Some things can't be sidestepped or dealt with diplomatically. It's best to tell things the way that they are.
Hey auntie! Mind your damn business!
2007-10-28 10:36:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's hard to avoid someone when you live with them,so you really need to have a discussion with her. Tell her that you would realy appreciate it if she doesn't ask you so many questions.
But all in all she just sounds like a nosey aunt that you can probably have a good relationship with her if you just have a talk. If she's prying into personal things in your life and really getting manipulative then tell her to "mind her business please" Go for a walk when she around and only speak to her about certain things you are comfortable with. Dont feel threatened and dont run every time she's around confront her gently and respectfully and if she starts rumors about you to the family just remeber to be honest with them and tell them to speak to you before jumping to conclusions.
2007-10-28 17:34:04 · answer #2 · answered by happyhive7 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All I can say in all Aunts love you like their own so it's difficult sometimes because she has to stand behind mom. I'm an Aunt and I have 4 grown children that I love , My nephews and neices are very loved and so our their children. I'm known as Aunt Linda so much I think that's my name lol. She shouldn't be saying negative stuff to you because your mother is the one who is your boss. Just stay to yourself and spend time with her when she's in a good mood. Good luck young one. Just start reading books all the time you won't regret it.
2007-10-28 17:32:21 · answer #3 · answered by Luv2no is in the house 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Living with your aunt it will be hard to avoid her unless you stay busy or go out for entertainment. Otherwise try getting alone by being helpful if you can or surprise her with a gift every once in a while.
2007-10-28 17:31:44 · answer #4 · answered by JoJoBa 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, you can't avoid her too much if you and your mom live with her. If it bothers you, talk to your Mom about it, and maybe your Mom can talk to her about more privacy. Living with family is hard, and you have to be very careful not to mess up the relationship.
2007-10-28 17:30:09 · answer #5 · answered by gahrahstah 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Every one even adults have to earn respect..that includes yr aunt...do not allow her to put you down in any way that is a bully...especially if she is being negative to you...
2007-10-28 17:37:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey your aunt don't have a life.and has nothing better to do than mess with you.. Be respectful to her after all you live in her house.
2007-10-28 17:33:19 · answer #7 · answered by mcdonaldsnuggetaustin 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
tell your aunt how you feel bout her constantly being in your buisness
2007-10-28 17:32:56 · answer #8 · answered by sarah_see_123 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have you told your mom
2007-10-28 17:29:58 · answer #9 · answered by <3Just So You Know<3 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋