I'm not referring only to this Q&A website, but to the real world as well.
2007-10-28 10:18:17 · 14 answers · asked by FRANsuFU 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
This will blow your mind. You actually feel INFERIOR to almost everyone you meet. You mask that insecurity by looking for things about everyone you meet with which you can favorably compare yourself and then you focus on those things to assure yourself that you are not a huge loser.
People are not stupid and if you view them with contempt they will pick up on that attitude, and it will get lonely after a while.
People have strong and weak points --- everyone --- including you. Concentrate on your own inner beauty and spend less time worrying about other people and what their weaknesses may be --- better yet, focus your attention on their strengths and credit them with that --- people will seem stronger and better to you, and you will find they have qualities you want to cultivate in yourself. It doesn't make you weaker, and you were never a loser in the first place.
Here's a hug. Good luck!
((((((((((you)))))))))))))))
2007-10-28 10:43:18 · answer #1 · answered by Parrot Eyes 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't listen to these clowns. Type in your question and you'll see there are others like you... like us. There has to be a reason why we feel the way we do, why we have the intelligence we have. We see the world on different levels, different layers... all at the same time. We have purpose on earth, we just have to figure out what it is.
2013-11-26 22:38:35 · answer #2 · answered by Zach Mellado 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because you feel superior, doesn't mean you are. Maybe you just have a great sense of self- esteem or you have a real big ego or maybe the people you hang out with, are not that great, there-fore making you look better.
Either way, its not very appealing, sorry to burst your big bubble!
2007-10-28 17:24:10 · answer #3 · answered by charm1936 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
If you do you may well want to work on it with a professional. It isn't rational thinking. If you feel this way, you actually are excusing a low esteem issue so you can feel better about yourself. No one is actually superior to anyone who feels good about themselves.
2007-10-28 20:41:24 · answer #4 · answered by dawnb 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe because your mom told you that you were special or that you were better then everyone else but now in the grown up world you see that you aren't that special and there are other folks out there better off then you are but no one person is better then the next. no matter what..
2007-10-28 18:55:09 · answer #5 · answered by panda 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds as though you have some kind of narcissistic psychological disorder. If you are happy with your life the way it is, then leave well enough alone. However, if you are unhappy, you might want to consult a mental health professional.
2007-10-28 17:24:05 · answer #6 · answered by Purdey EP 7 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Because deep down you feel insecure or 'less than' others and need to feel better than everyone else so you kid yourself that you're superior - not an attractive trait.
2007-10-28 17:24:20 · answer #7 · answered by Latte 3 · 6⤊ 0⤋
Well, maybe if you would quit hanging out at the morgue you could learn some humility.
2007-10-28 20:07:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Beacause you're an Ugly American
2007-10-28 18:02:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must not have come into contact with very many people.
2007-10-28 17:30:49 · answer #10 · answered by ilufthemountains 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋